I'm a funny, kind of random, creative, kind person. I like to hang out with my friends, family and pets. I'm pretty easy going and enjoy the occasional spontaneous adventure.
I LIKE LISTS
(So here's one with some random information about me):
*I am an animal lover. Currently I have cats and I also feed and care for a delightful feral cat colony.
*I'm very family oriented.
*I'm a feminist. Feminism means equality for all genders.
*I am a photographer, specializing in fine art self portraits with emotional and/or societal topics.
*I am also a jewelry and accessory designer/creator.
*I am an avid fan of horror films.
*I'm a night person, which means I get most of my stuff done at night.
*I love to read, write, paint, etc.
*I'm an introvert, but I enjoy the occasional party or get together with the right people.
*I'm a bit of a homebody, but I am also up for adventures and spontaneous nonsense.
*I'm independent and enjoy my own company, but you're welcome to join in on the madness! :-P
*I enjoy laughing a lot, being silly and sarcastic and I find those qualities attractive in a partner.
*I love late night chats, be it about nothing or everything.
*I am an absolute nut for rain. I love the rain. ALL THE RAIN.
*I have many tattoos. If you're not into that, that's fine. Just move along.
*I know what I want and am a bit picky, but I think that's a good thing. Never settle.
WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR IN A GUY:
*A guy who is kind, caring, handsome, likes animals and has similar views.
*Someone with passion, goals, hopes and dreams.
*I love people I can just be with. Not always needing a plan. Just come over, hang out, talk, go for a drive, whatever.
*I don't care what kind of car you drive or how much money you have or the brand of clothes you wear. I care if you're a good person.
*Someone who likes me for me, who doesn’t want me to change physically or emotionally. I love who I am and I don’t want or need to change, so don’t go thinking I will.
I won't give out my phone number unless we have been chatting here for a while and we click. No KIK or Snapchat.
*Hook ups/booty calls
*Self absorbed jack asses
*Anyone participating in animal cruelty or the oppression of other races, genders, sexual orientations, etc.
*I am not a fan of guns.
*None of that "come on over" stuff. I don't know you. If we are going to meet, it will be in public where we can get to know each other.
Asking me to "come over" when we don't even know each other is incredibly disrespectful. Especially in the middle of the night. It is saying "Cater to me, my wants/needs. I don't care what you are doing now. I'm not even going to offer to come to you. I don't care about going on a date and getting to know you. I don't respect you. And this isn't my first time pulling this bullsh*t."
You are not the exception to this rule.
Misogyny, micro aggressions, "slut" shaming, mansplaining, anti-equality bullsh*t, etc. will not be tolerated, be it in a message to me, or written/displayed on your profile. Your insecurities about yourself and fear/hate of strong women belong in therapy, not in public.
*I'm confident with who I am, and love myself. That said, I realize that I am not everyone's cup of tea. That is perfectly fine.
*If you think attempting to insult me (or any woman) will do anything in your favor, that is simply laughable.
*Playing "games" won't get you anywhere with anyone.
For a first date, something simple. Get some coffee, hang out at a park or bookstore. Go for a walk. Get some frozen yogurt. Save some animals. You know, that kinda jazz.