Ashanti247
Age: 40
Friends
norcal-living
Age: 36
Dating
Keyrlis: Did you see how awesome I am?
About
Non-smoker with Average body type
City
Fortuna, California
Details
39 year old Man, 5' 11" (180cm), Other Religion
Ethnicity
Caucasian Cancer with No hair
Intent
Keyrlis Wants a relationship
Education
Some college
Personality
Comic Nerd
Profession
Baker, bartender, cook, manager, handyman...


dating
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I am Seeking a Woman For Friends
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Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets Cat Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 3 years



About Me
Hi!
I'm from Alabama, but tha' don' mean nothin', 'cept I talk differn't 'n you do. :)

I really need to make sure I keep this updated more often :)
I was busy with life for a while, and forgot I had put this site "on pause" until I could get caught up. No wonder it was so quiet on here ;)
It says I am "looking for a relationship", and in one sense, that's not true- Looking for one never seems to work, as opposed to just letting it happen. So I guess I am more "waiting for a surprise".

I moved here to see the ocean in all her beautiful fury and power, and to watch the sun dive into her depths at night. I wanted to be scintillated by the solitude of land's edge against my skin, caressing me with delicate, razor-sharp daggers of fear and excitement. I desired to penetrate nature, naked in my insignificant helplessness within Gaia's will. I wanted to immerse myself here in the "Land of Dreams", and find what I had been waking for.
(I didn't just mean the accent. I love waxing poetic as long as I don't have to do it out loud, heh heh)

So I have been searching myself to discover what my purpose is in life, and I expect to explore myself until I discern just what exactly I am here for, though I think that that very exploration, may, in fact, be it. There is too much beauty, symmetry, and elegance for the cosmos not to have some schedule of events, and I would like to think that my actions will benefit the future in some way. I daily require intelligent conversation, honest opinions, and a willingness to play. I listen to most kinds of music, but love 80's music and industrial. I love TOOL, Paramore, NIN, The Orb, Tom Petty, and so many more. I would like to get out more and do more outdoors activities, so if you are a good motivator, please feel free to show me what there is to do in nature out here. Either that, or you can sit around and couchlock to the hum of the TV with me.

I'm hoping to find friends here, of course, with the possibility of more if we gel well. I like to think I have a good, if sometimes dark, sense of humor. I try to be on time, but I have a long history of being temporally displaced. I've been told I'm a good listener, and I can often see both sides of the story. I love good food, and enjoy finding new places to get incredible dishes.
I like making a statement, and then repeating it grammatically for effect. ;)

I have been kind of a homebody/hermit for about a year now, working through some crises of convenience and building (or burning) bridges as necessary. That's given me plenty of time to cogitate on myself, and to meditate on everything else. So far, I've learned that nothing goes completely as expected (nothing can truly be completely expected), that balance is relative even in society (as long as you give money more weight than it deserves), and that ignorant people will trample you if you let them, anywhere and everywhere they have opportunity. Not because they are evil, but because they are willfully ignorant and afraid, and just need to feel better than someone, ANYone.

If any of that sounds interesting to you, why don't you get in touch with me? I'm not a stalker, I'm not a pervert (well, too much of one }:) ) and I'm not a loser. I've got three good reasons for us to meet. All you need is one. Wanna know more about me? Check out the my space /keyrlis page, or my Face book /keyrlis page, though I'll bet you they are a little out of date. In fact, I have pretty much rejected the commercial, privacy-threatening intent of all the social networks, so don't expect any recent changes. I'm mostly the same person, though, and you might figure out a little bit about how I got here :)

First Date
I dunno, I like surprises, so maybe something spontaneous we find in the paper, like a hike through the marsh, or Rock Band at the casinos or something neither of us has done before. I've never been skydiving, but you better be really hot if you expect me to follow you out of a perfectly good airplane: I'm gaining a fear of heights the older I get! ;P
Seriously, though, I am open to new experiences, and care more about who I am sharing it with. I'd walk to a gas station with a martian and enjoy the trip immensely, as long as he drank his fill and never thirsted. I've spent hours alone looking up through a telescope, and walked by myself miles along (mostly Gulf Coast) beaches observing the constant variability of the waves, the stars, and all of the wonders of the universe. I'm not afraid of having some time to enjoy myself but it sure would be nice to have some company, especially if they didn't so much NEED me as much as they WANTED to be with me.
Kudos and cool points if you get the Heinlein reference.