I am hoping to meet a brilliant, self-actualized, artistic, witty, extraordinary, younger woman who is compassionate, empathetic, very attractive, family-oriented yet fiercely independent. You're all that and much more, plus, you also desire to share this very cool and interesting life of yours with all of its many permutations, with just one, incredible man.
If we both "get" eachother's humor and enjoy eachother's quirks as well as mainsteam practicality, we could gel forever.
My bar is admittedly set very high, but this is a good thing, and I look forward to meeting another good person with similiar uncompromising standards. I believe almost all things are possible when honestly applied to any situation.
Even though this is all about dating, I, for one, am truly only interested in seeking my life soul-partner. Afterall, life moves quickly, and I'm
not "twenty-something" anymore. We all hopefully learn from past mistakes as well as successes in life, and my attitude reflects significant redefinition of the importance of staying true to oneself, while being open to the diversity and challenges of life's many twists and turns. Oh, and please be able to spell decently with grammatical accuracy; at least most of the time. Be very playful and loving, and we'll get along just great!
As for music, I'm an "ex" musician. Though once a musician, always, as that part lives very close to the surface in me. Great music enhances everything! My taste runs the gamut from obscure classical to obscure indie, with high peaks in blues, jazz, soulful r&b, and great English 60's rock.
You must be brilliant, (or at least very, very, very, smart) to draw my interest, as well as being very attractive, and openly warm and friendly to seriously catch my eye. But "attractive" is extremely subjective, and much of what attracts me comes through body language, a look, tone, syntax, ideas, longings, sweetness, undefineables, but they turn me on as much as any bodily attribute can. Though, there is a certain "look" in ones eyes that means more to me than any perfect body ever could. Warm, loving, giving, knowing eyes will slay me every time. Eyes, and great teeth. I am absolutely knocked out by great teeth (even though mine aren't perfect). And most of all, be REAL. Be who you are, and be open to communicating who you are to me and the world.
I am searching for a creative woman who is very much her own person, who, like me, wants to share her world with THE ONE. On her own terms, she is an independent thinker, culturally critical, psychologically and intellectually aware, and yet humorously savvy, socially sophisticated, but laid-back in the ways of the world; an optimistic realist wins the race!
A big, big, good heart is essential and wears well with me and says much about you. You "get it," about life, even if you protest it sometimes.
I am a busy business owner in the San Fernando Valley with strong musical and artistic urges that often don't get their fair share of my time. Being Arty, a bit geeky, (I think I can fix anything even if I can't) and definitely musically driven, are qualities that enliven me. I love great and not-so-great impromptu discussions on all topics. Great conversation and stories of the day always intrigue me; even if they are mundane, boring, or banal, they're about real life, so ultimately, I love them. (Yeah, I love to write, and if I could clone myself, one of me would definitely be a full-time writer, but alas...current technology just isn't there yet.)
I love the interplay of diverse ideas, and witty banter carries a great deal of weight... as does an excellent meal made by you, me, or the kitchen of a funky but amazing restaurant. Great and not-so-great films, and a sensuous touch with the right person at the right moment... heaven.
Though I am now considered an "older guy" by some, I rarely think of myself in that way. A good family gene pool has given me much that is unearned, but I'm happy to have its benefits. Creating a new family with children, or blending into a family with children definitely interests me, but is not essential.
Though I "sound" very serious here, I'll definitely make you laugh your ass off, as my sense of humor is always running just below the surface if not on top, ready to pop through to counterpoint the daily mania we all share. I'll crack you up a lot, if you promise to do the same to me. I'm definitely looking for the real thing... the whole enchillada in one amazing woman! (Does 'enchillada' have 2 l's?)
I look forward to hearing from you!