SomeEnglishGuy: I'm looking for the same thing as you :)
About
Non-smoker with Average body type
City
Los angeles, California
Details
47 year old Man, 5' 9" (175cm), Non-Religious
Ethnicity
Caucasian Capricorn with No hair
Intent
SomeEnglishGuy
Education
Graduate degree
Personality
Profession
IT Director







I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Other
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship



About Me
I'm an English guy who for the life of him can't take himself too seriously. I've been in the USA for just over a decade, and am grateful that I've managed to retain my accent. My day job is Director of IT at a progressive private school in LA, so I'm kind of a geek.

So what am I like? Well, I'm a paradox wrapped in a conundrum wrapped in a nice flaky pastry. I'm straightforwardly complex; there are great depths to my shallowness, and I have an ulterior motive for my hidden agenda. I love my language; it is a constant struggle to jejune excessive verbosity. I am an incorrigible flirt and a dirty old man, but I do so with style, wit and respect, which, so I'm reliably informed, makes me adorable. My brain houses a vast store of mostly useless information, though I manage to arrange it such that I am by all accounts a fascinating conversationalist, able to talk in an apparently knowledgeable fashion about virtually any subject you throw at me...and if I don't have specific knowledge, I'll likely have a provocative opinion. If nothing else I am told it makes me entertaining company.

I want to use the second half of my life to try to rectify the mistakes of the first, and have some fun while I'm at it. Plus bring something positive into people's lives, and not die in the process. Especially not dying...though I keep coming close. For the Terry Pratchett fans out there, I'm beginning to suspect I was Rincewind in a previous life...

I am reasonably active in the BDSM scene in LA, and identify as Dominant with Sadistic tendencies. I have had over a decade of involvement in the BDSM scene in California, and several years in 'adult' media. I formerly ran The Spectator which was California's leading adult weekly magazine, and it's an industry I still have ties to.

If you're still reading, there are a few things I'm interested in exploring and maybe you are, too:

1) I identify as ethically non-monogamous or poly, and although I can't say I'd never be monogamous again, I'd hate to ever give up the honesty, authenticity, and freedom polyamory invites. It feels like "relationships for grown ups." Not to say that other relationship forms cannot also be mature and satisfying, but too often expectations cloud the whole thing and true honesty suffers. With polyamory, it's just how we feel about each other regardless of how we might feel about anyone else (which is not to say that these things are unrelated). Ya gotta love a challenging puzzle.

2) people who value themselves and are playful, creative, and celebrating life in unique and unconventional ways.

3) D/s dynamics.

4) people who have self-confidence, honesty, sincerity and integrity, and live consciously.

These are not in any way prerequisites for contacting me, I'm just putting it out there.

First Date
Dinner and a movie


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