I read this site and it looks ok compared to most . I am 47 been single ..completely single for years . Haven't dated since my twenties . I am not very active . I live near Tampa Winters / in Ann Arbor Michigan summers but may move here full time ...just a matter of selling out . I was the shy kid in school and always told I was of average looks not at a dud . I have little confidence but that can change for the better hopefully . I am disabled from a severe pain from a spinal chord injury but walk talk and look completely normal other than I am not active . I can come over watch tv , go fishing , I just have to sit most the time sadly but if your living a full life and want companionship when you are relaxing ....resting I could be perfect . I do not have a camera down here now . I look like a cross between Nicholas Cage and Hank Hill no kidding . If you couldn't get excited about Hank or Nick I won't work . I really just want a friend to meet for pier fishing , getting together for dinner . I love drive inns we have one here in my town . ( Gals have you noticed anyone that says they like to fish gets tons of hits in this area ? ) I just like to sit , relax in the sun and eat a packed lunch or KFC dinner I brought . I have a nice Land yaht with tv , microwave ... I love historical parks . I live on a very tight budjet . If you are for me we will go dutch and want to do things that are inexpensive .At first I found it hard ratcheting down my expenses now its a game . I love garage sales . Fringe benifts aren't a bad thing . However , I really just am looking for companionship ,broadening my horizons . I like people and learn something from everyone . Hopefully I can slowly build my self up . I stand less then a hour a day right now ...well that should be enough to scare anyone away . Take care remember life is very challanging for many people . I never imagined this could happen to anyone and I am luckier than some I have met . I have allot to give to the right person . Whatever limitations I have , are only pushing me into new areas . I am sorry I have no camera with me now or pictures on this computor . I know your more important than that . Take a chance my description is accurate . I am 6-2 235 .
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I know I am a grown man but I am so self concious on first meetings like so many people . I am very low key and dress jeans / t-shirts most the time . Dressed up for me is slacks and a Polo shirt . So figure it will be somewhere casual . Of course for your saftey it should be a public place where you can run to your car and leave in a hurry lol . Like I said I have been disabled for 10 years now . I haven't lost the business and the vacation home dream , life isn't over yet . I am a fighter . I am open to what you would like to do on a first meeting of course nothing is written in stone . I have a idea ...thats about it .
I don't mean to be rude but I am just able to support myself so women looking for a provider should keep looking . I do not follow Jim Cramer but if you watch Mad Money on CNBC , you can get a idea how I get by and pay bills .I am a home owner and support a house and two cars on 15000 a year .I find my pleasures in simple things . I really wish I would of focused there earlier in life but wouldn't change anything . My income some years is more than what i stated but I never know when and it can be less too so I have to save what I can liveing frugally . How about meeting me for some fishing at the Sunshine Bridge Park on the North side for lunch and or dinner ,pot luck you bring some goodies and I will bring a few . I am not a great cook but willing to fry fish right out of the bay on site that day if we catch something otherwise the van is stocked . Since I have no pic and I know that stinks we could work it out so you can do a drive by . Maybe you bring a camera and help me out or not hopefully I wouldn't need a pic anymore ..right ? Believe me I am not looking for a harem . I just want to get out a few times a month and make a new friend then see how it goes .
To get out into the fishing peir is 5 bucks but its a nice place to visit with salt air and a nice view . I don't know why you wouldn't stop and just talk no matter what . If you don't have your own pole you can use mine and we'll pass some time .If you have a better inexpensive low activity idea lets talk . I have msn messenger . I play cards online . I love euchre on MSN or hearts . I never played cards before I was so active before my car accident ( I was hit sitting on a high speed road at a red light it wasn't even my fault ) but I like to now . For recreation the last few years I go to euchre tournaments at times . Deep down I am competitive still . I live and let live ,hoping I lead a life that is friendly to others at all times . I was raised Catholic , Boy Scouts , College educated , loved buisiness school taught myself to trade stocks . I have a pretty solid foundation under me for morals and consience . I want to improve my health , eating habbits . I go slow . I am very heavily medicated becuase I have been in severe pain but I am trying very hard to reduce my meds and lacking much energy becuase of it , be kind .