*** If you are NOT an OLD SCHOOL, GENTLEMAN, PLEASE do NOT message me.
I have found as of LATE, that not EVERYONE comprehends this MENTALITY. Lacking HONOR, RESPECT, LOYALTY, and CODE is a DEAL BREAKER.
IF you have CHILDREN still living with you, DO NOT BOTHER MESSAGING ME. I am a MOTHER and a GRANDMOTHER, and have EARNED my FREEDOM. I'm NOT about to DEAL with anyone ELSE'S "responsibilities" or BABY MAMA DRAMA. Lastly, if you DON'T prefer a THICK ASS, CURVY, STRONG, WOMAN, feel FREE to F*CK OFF to the NEXT PROFILE. ***
I am a woman who is very engrossed in the arts and it's many diversities.
It flows through my veins and I present it aesthetically in conjunction
with what I do. Music is VERY important to me and I find solace in it
whenever I can, and I am driven to the alternative or heavy side of it.
I also enjoy classical with an emphasis on piano fortes. I am not easily
amused, and am NOT looking for drama in ANY form or fashion. Life is too
short to be SQUANDERED on nonsense.
I have many responsibilities and it is important that I attend to each and
every one. I work hard, enjoy travel, new experiences, locations and people.
I consider myself an extrovert and can converse and interact with ANY type
of personality. I am well respected and EXTREMELY loyal to those who are
close to me. Truth be told, I love people and rarely ever meet a stranger.
My work is important to me, and I pride myself on perfecting my skill and
bringing out the best artistic result in my endeavors.
I tend to be mistaken for being much YOUNGER than my chronological age. This
specific misconception is because I take care of my body by regularly attending
the gym, eating pretty healthy, knowing how to dress properly, and finding HUMOR in
even the most $HITTY of circumstances. In person I am to be found ALWAYS smiling and
I do not look like everyone else, and that is the EXACT intention. Most people
take notice of my clothes, makeup, hair and tattoos. It gives me a chance to
interact with MANY different people and invite them into a small window of
I am HIGHLY PASSIONATE and must have an equal on this attribute. To me, there is
nothing WORSE than to be with someone who does NOT find the ability to express
INTENSE feelings both verbally and physically. A crappy kisser is a deal breaker,
so is anyone who does not find some joy in each day. I want to intertwine fingers,
kiss as if tomorrow will never arrive, lay side by side and whisper innermost
thoughts and feelings to my partner, and be able to just be myself and share with complete
trust. In essence, I want my BEST friend to also be my GREATEST lover.
A few things I find that I could NOT live without are:
I often spend time thinking about my purpose in this life and the people who
enrich it, and those who will in the future.
Considering I work all week, there may be times I go out with friends.
There are other times I merely wish to stay home and relax in the comfort of
my surroundings with take out and a movie.
I am HIGHLY selective about whom I allow into my life, only someone who will ADD to it
and NOT take AWAY from it is what I seek. THIS is non-negotiable.
I will accept conversation from people who are MENTALLY SOUND, intelligent, witty,
charming, PASSIONATE, and have life goals and ambitions. I prefer someone who is
MATURE and COMPREHENDS that the brain is the ONE true aphrodisiac. A meeting of
the MINDS, a connection of SOULS, a fire raging between two HEARTS, THAT is the
epitome of ecstasy and satisfaction to the nth degree.
A prerequisite to there even being a first date would be time spent talking via IM, texting, emailing and phone conversation for a period of time where I feel comfortable taking the next step. I tend to prefer getting to know a person in depth before making plans to do something as I do not want to waste my time nor anyone else's. If the communication is not up to par then expect me to NOT wish to move forward. Lack of CONSISTENT and in DEPTH CONVERSING is a deal breaker and whatever contact one would have with me will be TERMINATED. I don't have time for nonsense NOR games. What hours in the day I do have for getting to know someone are VALUABLE, therefore not to be squandered on drama seekers, wannabe's, bullsh*t artists, gamers, players, or anyone who is in the NEGATIVE in the IQ department. Gentlemen PLEASE do not message me unless you comprehend this. I get too many people who wish to meet immediately, before I am ready, OR have COMPLETELY wasted my TIME. One must have patience, as all good things come to those who wait. If you have no patience, do NOT message me.