I'm a geek, gamer and BBW, looking for fellow geeks and gamers, NOT looking for casual sex.
Mention something you like on my interests list and you're guaranteed a response. Typing just the word, "music," for example, is not mentioning something, just so we're clear. Real messages with actual sentences help let me know you're literate...please be literate. There are a lot of things on that list, pick one that you think is interesting. Please, don't message just the word, "Hi," or, "how are you?" If you do and your profile is nearly blank (I read the profile of each person that messages me) I'll be honest I probably won't respond because I don't know what to say to you. You've given me no indication as to why you messaged me other than seeing my picture and clicking on it. I promise you, if the only reason you message me is my picture we will have nothing to talk about. Looks aren't the most important part of knowing someone. It's nice to be shown in some way that you want to get to know me and have read a bit of my profile. I'll be honest I don't respond to every message, I don't have the time. I do, however, respond to people who actually make an effort to have a conversation.
I've had problems showing as 'online' because I have the app on my phone, just because it shows me online and I haven't responded to your message does not mean I am ignoring you.
I want to be clear when I say I'm NOT looking for casual sex. I'm here to meet people with similar interests and make friends, I'm not a one night stand kind of girl. If you message me for sex I'll politely decline but if you persist I'll block you. I'm no prude and I'm certainly not vanilla but I'm not interested in casual sex with strangers, please respect that.
I want to meet new people, make some new friends and really connect with someone, someone who sees who I am and likes what they see.
If you're still reading at this point, thank you for taking a moment to learn something about me. ^_^
I am a geek and a bookworm/bibliophile. I'm open minded and compassionate and my greatest strength and weakness is my empathy for others. I'm not into sports but I do take an interest in what those around me are interested in. I'm not a super girly girl, I grew up in the country but I'm NOT your outdoorsy/active/hiking/biking etc. kind of person and if you're looking for someone who loves being super active and outside all the time, I'm just not that girl. I'm pale and burn insanely fast, my skin doesn't tan. I do however, want to learn how to fillet my own fish. My friends can get me out for karaoke or dancing once a month but mostly I'd rather hang at home with a few friends playing cards or video games than go bar-hopping.
I love intellectual discussions and gaming, whether it be cards, video games, board games, role-playing, etc. and I'm usually willing to give most games a shot. Ideally, I'd like to meet some fellow geeks and gamers to hang with and if things went somewhere from there cool, but please don't expect more than conversation and friendship.
I'm a BBW, a plus size girl for those not up on the terminology. If you don't like curves, move on. Everyone has physical attributes they want in a partner and very tall and curvaceous isn't everyone's ideal and I get that and take no offence to your personal preferences. I only ask that if you're looking for a relationship and you're not attracted to plus sized girls please don't waste my time or yours. If you're just looking for friends then my appearance shouldn't matter, friends come in every form.
I am bi, however, I'd like to state now that I won't defend my sexuality to you so don't question it and don't make assumptions. This doesn't mean I was kidding about not wanting casual sex with strangers, I'm just being up front. If you feel the need to question the validity of my sexuality don't bother talking to me. This isn't to say I won't talk about it, I just don't feel the need to justify myself unless you plan on justifying your sexuality to me and make sure you're good and thorough, lol. Then, perhaps I'll consider justifying myself in return.
I love music, I love to sing and love karaoke. I like most kinds of music, or at least some of nearly every kind of music. I like songs I'm able to sing, dance to or that have really beautiful meanings. I have my days where I want loud thrumming music that fits my mood, Three Days Grace, Apocolyptica, Rob Zombie, Skillet etc. Sometimes I just lose myself in music and could probably spend a great deal of time just singing for fun.
I have four tattoos. Each has a story, a purpose, and each is able to be hidden when I want/need to. They represent the things I love most in my life, such as, my family. If you want to know more about what they are or what their specific meanings are I do love explaining the designs. I don't have many piercings, just my ears and tongue but I really love piercings on others when they're ones that suit the person.
I can be pretty shy in person so getting to know me online is usually a lot easier at first but once I trust you it's hard to lose my trust, then I get talkative and the trouble really begins ^.^
I like the weird, the strange, the unique, the intellectual. I'm my own brand of freak an I've always preferred it that way. Calling me normal isn't my idea of a compliment, in fact it's far closer to being an insult to me.
To be honest, I'm serious about meeting people and making new friends but I really do need time to get to know you before I'll be comfortable enough to meet in person. I know what I'm comfortable with and if you don't want to take the time to get to know me and let me get to know you then you should probably move on.
If you did read all the way down here, thank you. ^_^
*On a side note, if you've gotten down to here and are still interested, you should know that I do smoke for chronic pain management. I won't smoke around you if you don't smoke.*