Sweetsoul~Crys: Be yourself, be witty, be unique...
Non-smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
Peterborough, Ontario
28 year old Woman, 6' 0" (183cm), Non-Religious
Caucasian Cancer with Blonde hair
Sweetsoul~Crys Casual Dating/No Commitment
Some college
small business bookkeeper

March 2013 enjoying my dark side

I am Seeking a Man For Friends
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets Cat Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? No Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 3 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious

About Crys
I'm a freak, geek, gamer and BBW, looking for fellow freaks, geeks and gamers, NOT looking for casual sex.

I was in an accident that totalled my car, at the end of February and I'm just getting my new wheels on the road.

Mention something you like on my interests list and you're likely to get a response. Messages with actual sentences help let me know you're literate... please be literate. There are a lot of things on that list, pick one or ten.

I won't respond if you are rude, have a blank profile, sexual in the first few messages, or say nothing but, "let's chat," or, "how are you," because I don't know what to say to you. You've given me no indication as to why you messaged me other than seeing my picture and clicking on it. If the only reason you message me is my picture we will have nothing to talk about.

I've had problems showing as 'online' because I have the app on my phone, just because it shows me online and I haven't responded to your message does not mean I am ignoring you.

I'm here to meet people with similar interests and make friends. I'm no prude and I'm certainly not vanilla but I'm not interested in casual sex with strangers, please respect that.

I want to really connect with someone, someone who sees who I am and likes what they see. Ideally, someone who is able to share themselves as well.

I am a geek and a bookworm/bibliophile. I'm open minded and compassionate and my greatest strength and weakness is my empathy for others.

I'm not into sports but I do take an interest in what those around me are interested in. I'm not a super girly girl, I grew up in the country but I'm NOT your outdoorsy/active/hiking/biking etc. kind of person and if you're looking for someone who loves being super active and outside all the time, I'm just not that girl. I'm pale and burn insanely fast, my skin doesn't tan. I do, however, want to learn how to fillet my own fish.

My friends can get me out for karaoke or dancing once a month but mostly I'd rather hang at home with a few friends playing cards or video games than go bar-hopping.

I love intellectual discussions and gaming, whether it be cards, video games, board games, role-playing, etc. and I'm usually willing to give most games a shot. Ideally, I'd like to meet some fellow geeks and gamers to hang with and if things went somewhere from there cool, but please don't expect more than conversation and friendship.

I'm a plus size viking woman. If you don't like curves, move on. Everyone has physical attributes they want in a partner and very tall and curvaceous isn't everyone's ideal and I get that and take no offence to your personal preferences. I only ask that if you're looking for a relationship and you're not attracted to plus sized girls please don't waste my time or yours. If you're just looking for friends then my appearance shouldn't matter, friends come in every form.

I am bisexual, to me, this means I am able to love and feel attraction regardless of genitalia being like or unlike my own. I am also sapiosexual, so what's between your ears is way more important to me.

I love music, I love to sing and love karaoke. I like most kinds of music, or at least some of nearly every kind of music. I like songs I'm able to sing, dance to or that have really beautiful meanings. Love song, by Sara Bareilles is my current favourite to sing. I have my days where I want loud thrumming music that fits my mood, Three Days Grace, Apocolyptica, Rob Zombie, Skillet etc. Sometimes, I just lose myself in music and could probably spend a great deal of time just singing for fun.

I have four tattoos. Each has a story, a purpose, and each is able to be hidden when I want/need to. They represent the things I love most in my life, such as, my family. If you want to know more about what they are or what their specific meanings are I do love explaining the designs. I don't have many piercings, just my ears and tongue but I really love piercings on others when they're ones that suit the person.

I can be pretty shy and anxious in person so getting to know me online is usually a lot easier at first but once I trust you it's hard to lose my trust, then I get talkative and the trouble really begins ^.^

I like the weird, the strange, the unique, the intellectual. I'm my own brand of freak and I've always preferred it that way. Calling me normal isn't my idea of a compliment, in fact it's far closer to being an insult to me.

To be honest, I really do need time to get to know you before I'll be comfortable enough to meet in person. I know what I'm comfortable with and if you don't want to take the time to get to know me and let me get to know you then you should probably move on.

If you did read all the way down here, thank you, here's your cookie. ^_^

*On a side note, if you've gotten down to here and are still interested, you should know that I do smoke cannabis for chronic pain management. I won't smoke around you if you don't smoke.*

First Date
Depends on the person. - mostly I consider that statement a cop out but I'm trying to be realistic, going for coffee or tea works great for some and a movie/video game night works better for others and it's something I would like to decide with the person rather than decide completely on my own because they may have some really cool ideas I wouldn't have thought of.

Mail Settings
To send a message to Sweetsoul~Crys you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age between 20 and 40.
Live in Canada
Live within 75 miles.