While I am zany, I would not want to go bungee jumping. Bungee jumping involves no creativity. Same thing with casinos. I can't stand them. You just sit there waiting for something to happen. I guess you could say I'm a 'take charge' person. The man I would find attractive would be secure in himself, respectable, and sensible. He can't be afraid to be with some one who does not blend into the background.
I enjoy doing things where when I walk away I feel like I've done well for us/myself. That could be a local event or a random act of kindness.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Sample tea from a 'loose leaf' place, then take a cup to a historical landmark, and talk about the experience.