I like to stay active and be social. Getting out on the lake in the summer or taking trips to the mountain in the winter is a great change of pace. I quarterback a co-ed flag football team on tuesday nights. We KA!! I have a motorcycle and get out on that when I am not on the lake ... so not as often as I would like. I like all kinds of music and people that are straight up. I have been in several long relationships and I am ready to relax and take things a little slower. However, I would not be afraid of the real thing. Family is important and I talk with my Mom and Grandmother regularly. I am a HUGE college basketball fan as I am from KY and bleed blue. I play rock band and love going to plays in NYC (thought that was a weird combination). Horse races are always a blast. I love an event you can go have fun at and walk away with more money in your pocket than you came with. blah blah blah ... I'll stop now
OK, I have decided that I need to use three periods less and get as much on this site about me as possible for you ladies to decide what you do with it. Also, for me this is not a popularity contest. I am not trying to get flattered by having a lot of women desire me, I just need one. I am not trying to date as many women as possible, I am looking to make real friends and meet someone special. I am challenging myself to be friends with women and not just look at them in terms of "is that someone I could be with, why yes and no". I have had a hard time I think b/c I tend to be very loyal. I want someone to give me their full attention and therefore I do that for whoever I am with. That has led to me having several long-term relationships that I wanted to grow into something special but they never have. And this is a bit sad for me as I wanted to meet someone when I was young and be with them forever. Do everything together. From college, to career, to kids / family, to those things in life you don't see coming, to making dreams come true, to retirement, and all the hard things that you should lean on each other for. Of course all that is still possible and I am looking forward to it very much. I think I am a very generous and thoughtful person. I want something that is 50/50. I want to know my special person like no other. Everything. I want to be able to tell how they are feeling just by looking at them. I want to be able to predict her. And most of all, I want to be able to make her so so happy. And like I said, I want the same in return. I want someone that like me, just wants the other to be as happy and have as great a life as they can. Now, I think some people are more high maintenance than others. I think some people have an unrealistic view on life. I am a big believer in things happening for a reason and putting yourself in the right place for the right time ... but not forcing it. I like to let things work out. But I understand you have to make things happen too. I can have just as much fun hanging out at home as I can spending a week in Ibiza Spain. Although the water in Ibiza is friggin amazing! I have to run for now, but I'll put more on later. C ya
Ok, next session here. I know I am going to meet someone I totally click with and we will have something very few people have. When I am with a woman she can expect a lot and that is ok with me. I may have to work long hours some times as I work in technology and some projects just have to get done! lol. But I have a lot of vacation time and I def use it. She can expect to get flowers or gifts as a surprise. She can expect for me to take a sincere interest in whats best for her in all aspects. I am an affectionate person so if you don't like to be hugged and kissed stop reading and move on now. I do like to talk. I want to have someone I can talk through things with. I will tell you what I feel and what I think. You don't have to read between the lines with me. I would appreciate the same in return. Even if it doesn't come out right the first time, just throw it out there and we'll figure it out. I def want to be with someone I am close with on an intellectual level. I can't wait to have kids b/c I just think it will be a blast!
quick recap on mua ... 34, 5 foot 10, 185 lbs, brown hair, brown eyes, really really average looking lol, athletic/strong build, I own two homes one in the University area and one in Mooresville, I own a boat, motorcycle, escalade, and way too much other crap. My only debts are my two mortgages and my escalade (which I will pay off quickly). I have excellent credit. I have manners even though I love getting around my good friends and goofing off without them. Of course I have a good job and work to live, not live to work. I think religion is important although I don't attend church regularly. But I probably will in the future and when I have kids.
What else ... I love road trips. Um, oh. I know I am not perfect. I know I will mess up but I will make sure I make up for anything I would do. And of course I won't do anything too bad! And I don't like space if there are problems. I want to be close. It doesn't feel right to me if a girl storms off or won't talk. I think you owe it to each other and the relationship to be open, keep trying, and be with that person. I think you should lean on each other.
On another note ... there go those periods again ... this may come out not too clear but I am going to try to throw it out there. The essence of things and people are more important to me than facts and details. If we meet for dinner or something I may ask you a lot of questions to get to know you and to get some essence of you. But I may not hold on to those details. What is important to me is the meaning of what you say, how you say it, and what that means about you. So please, don't get upset if we have more dinners and I don't remember a detail. When there is an important reason to remember it, I will. And if I ask again it's b/c I really want to know it well. I hope that make some sense.
Another thought ... I am def better in person than in this text. And I haven't said much about the physical part of a relationship as I guess I was raised not to talk about that freely like wide open on this site. But I will def discuss it with someone with mutual interest in each other, not just sex. I will say that I am absolutely looking for someone I can be attracted to intellectually as much as I am physically. Moreso really intellectually as we all know we get old and cute and lose the hotness. lol. Wow. I hope this stuff I am throwing out here makes sense to someone! Which brings me to another thought ... I would love to hear what you women think of what I have on here. Whether it makes sense or is just real strange ... I don't really know how it may read and would like a chance to understand how it comes across so I can make sure it's accurate/proper.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
For the first date I just want to relax and have a good time. Enjoy meeting someone new and hope they are as interesting as I think I am ... lol. I get out and do a lot so I am up for anything whether it would be just drinks at a trendy spot, friend's gathering, dinner, concert, race, whitewater rafting, sporting event, bowling, whatever. I do enjoy a good dinner at a place with a nice atmosphere. A good setting to talk privately. I also like getting out and goofing off. I guess I want to know we can hang out together and have a good time ... be close in that way. Learn as much as I can about you but more than that, just get a sense for who you are and how you look at things. Also, I am not trying to fool anyone. What you see if what you get and if you want to know something just ask. Anything. I am not looking to be impressed or impress anyone. I just want to know who you really are and to let you know who I really am. But now I am getting into the thoughts about someone I would really really be interested in. For now ... I just want to hang out, have fun, talk, laugh, be smart and stupid all at the same time. Now I want to go out and do something!