mrealru: ......I'll listen.
About
Non-Smoker with Athletic body type
City
Saratoga, California
Details
50 year old Male, 5' 8" (173cm), Non-religious
Ethnicity
Caucasian Sagittarius with Brown
Intent
mrealru is actively seeking a relationship.
Education
Associates degree
Personality
Adventurer
Profession
designer/sculptor







I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 9 years How ambitious are you? Very Ambitious
Second Language Spanish  



About Ron
First off...my pictures are current. .Good, bad, or otherwise that's me. I'm not always so grubby though, but I tend to get that way when I'm working or playing. I know how to get cleaned up as well.

My profile has always shown that I am a dad, but I have never given any details...until now. I have never been married but I have one little girl that is nine years old. I have been raising her all alone since she was three days old as we lost her mother at the hospital. I have always been good with kids but I had never even held a baby. In spite of being scared to death I learned quick and managed to keep her alive and in one piece. Lol. I have always respected and admired single mothers, but now I am in awe at how easy they make it look. I never did figure out how they hold a child on their hip with one arm(don't think I didn't try, lol). Anyway, so now I'm even better with kids and love being a dad. Life is one big adventure for my daughter and I get to be the hero! On the down side however, so many of the best moments of my life, a first smile, laugh, footstep. . . I experienced alone. There is a world of difference between an experience and a shared experience.

I have read so many profiles here written by people seeking the "love of their life" or "soul mate". I believe that you cannot find either one... you have to create them. If you consistently treat some one as if they mean the world to you...they will tend to. Treat them as if they don't...then more and more they will mean less and less to you. It's really that simple. Too simple perhaps. So many of the things we pursue, search for, or try to understand get overlooked because we expect them to be bigger or more elaborate than they are. The tricky part is finding a partner willing to practice the same policy. Some one that doesn't interpret kindness for weakness or find their attraction for you diminished by your devotion for them.

First Date
Really, how can you put a description here? It would never happen that way. Spontaneous plans are more fun.