To be honest, I have never really been on a real date! I am almost 28, yes, a single mom too. My idea of a first date now would have to be one were there would be no expectations after. Maybe make a day out of it, where we go out for breakfast with the children and then go to a beach or the zoo. That takes care of spending time with my children and making them a part of my life. Then I would get a Babysitter and we go out for dinner and a movie or go line dancing, something I have not been able to do in 3 years. My goal is to have a good time and know from that entire day, if "we" could have more days like that!