It seems that as we "mature", it should get easier shouldn't it? After all we have the benefit of past experiences, we are now more confident, self-assured and hopefully, a little wiser. By now we probably have developed our own perception of love and life....so it should be relatively easy to make a good impression on a dating site without having to re-invent yourself...I have discovered I quite like who I am and, hopefully you will see something in me that pleases you as well.
In many respects, I am a very strong woman, but once you know me you will see that I possess a much softer side as well. I am Metis and embrace all sides of my culture and identity. I may not always attend church but I am still very spiritual. I truly believe there is a higher power, a Creator.
I am a very passionate person and I will fight for what I believe in. I treat people the way I would like to be treated. I dislike bullies, arrogance, lies and disrespectful people....
Although I do love the look of winter...autumn is my favourite time of the year....I love the coolness, the colours,the smell, the dancing leaves on a windy day...and all those piles of unguarded leaves, I'm almost always tempted to dive in..(must be the kid in me).....
I love Canada, I love Alberta and I love the city I live in. I can't imagine living anywhere else.
My taste in music is a bit eclectic...I'm all over the place from Celtic to blues to good ole rock n roll. I love Cold Play, (Chris Martin has incredible vocals), David Wilcox, Bob Seger, Kings of Leon, Arcade Fire and my Canadian cronner, Michael Buble...
Food.....yup, like it, I like it a lot, especially a grilled steak with sauteed mushrooms, um um. I prefer salty to sweet(not much of a chocolate person), popcorn with lots of butter, and if I really, really like you...I might even share.*wink*
I'm not much of a drinker ( hopefully no one from the campsite reads this ..lol) Ok, ok, every once in a while I'll tie one on... I am a very social person and I like hanging out with my friends and my family.
I love the Calgary Flames as well as the Montreal Canadians. Used to watch a lot of sports when my brothers were alive. Now, there's no one to enjoy them with.
I am a tactile person, and I love the feel of cool silk against my skin. I also love wearing skirts and dresses...but.I can rock a pair of jeans too. Being from Manitoba, I do appreciate slipping into my warm flannel jammies on a cool winter's night...and sometimes on a lazy Sunday, I have been known to roam around in them all day..
I love the smell of freshly washed hair, certain colognes (CK Or Drakkar) and aftershave....oh, just the scent sometimes makes me hunger for those long, deep passionate kisses that carry on and on....Yes...I miss that. *sigh*
So why am I here, what am I looking for? In the words of the great Sigmund Freud, What does a woman want?....."That is a good question" says Freud,...one to which I have not been able to answer"....
Well maybe I can help.
We all want the perfect relationship as do I and we have our ideas as to how it should look , but in the "real" world there is no such thing. We are all looking for the same thing, someone we can trust, someone to share the good and the not so good. Someone to love and someone who will love us back.
I've thought about all the positives in a relationship, and there are many but what I miss the most is the sharing....and the body contact. I want that again, that's what I hunger for. I want to wake up and see him lying there next to me, I want to watch him breathe, kiss the corner of his mouth... I want to listen to the sound of his heart beating, drink in the smell of him and feel his warm embrace and feel and taste his lips on mine. I want to snuggle in to him, tell him how much I adore him... and then close my eyes and know he feels the same way.
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