Sassy Pants Mcgee
Updated side note: Guys say they appreciate when you reply to them that you're not interested and be up front, but then they message back and asked why! Then, you wonder why girls are "mean" and they delete read/unread messages without replying?? Holy cow. Well there's your answer. I'm not a psychologist! Calm breaths...ooooommmmmmmmm. Please establish yourselves!! Life is (only as) beautiful (as you make it!) and have fortitude! No means no. And since I'm so nice, here's one more thing! GOOD, CLEAR professional images! Duh! I don't mean a tux. And the "I caught a big fish pictures" are fine too! But the laying on the pillow thing??? Bathroom abs? Really?
Well Hi there! A little about m'self. I grew up in a small lovely desert town in Arizona - I remember the way the lightning lit up my driveway as I stood in the rain outside my house, then hearing the boom of the thunder. Arizona was fun and I don't miss the heat. I then relocated to California when I was 11, just in time for 5th grade. California (Los Angeles) was a good lesson, lots of fast unorganized and random cultures and impatient people, irrevocably and temperamentally carved by overpopulation, so it would seem. In short, yes I am part of the Oregon trail - moved here quite recently.
Not into the club scene/partying - been there got the T-shirt. Soooo over it. I am actively seeking a best friend in a man, and what that turns into is, well, whatever that will be! Que sera, sera. Quality over quantity. I don't have a physical "type" - if you're a deep thinker with an above average vocabulary & love/own animals, that would definitely rock. I am looking for a truth seeker, and I can usually tell from your photos and writing style (or lack of writing anything) if we'll get along or not, so please don't take it personally if I delete your message without replying. I'm not on POF to break the world record of dates/week. And if you have a bathroom picture of you holding up your shirt so the world can see your abs, I will avoid you like the plague. I'm getting too many machine gun emails, so I set it up that you have to write a frickin' essay to email me ;) I love to read, can't wait. And if you write like a gjfsgsjlgrnriusn...lmao - that's considered cheating you know, and will be frowned upon.
It's all about showing, not telling. I'm working on that spiritual lesson. Walk the talk, that sort of thing. Mostly doable in person meeting up, as opposed to honoring and being circumspect with the character count and/or attention span of those who may peruse this bio. I'm quiet, fun, silly and thoughtful. I'm ready for new adventure with the like-minded of Urantia. I'm cult-free, spontaneous and outgoing-in the right company, just like a cat. I love to dance, love a good sense of humor, light positive sarcasm, gentlemen - not so much chivalry but sure why not, whatever fuels the copacetic gestalt of our duo. I am essentially looking for someone with a calm, collected, spiritual outlook on life.
I like Animals(surprise!), slapstick humor (Chris Farley(RIP), Jim Carrey(When Nature Calls), philosophical banter, photography(I have a collection of my photography by request), whale watching (the boat ride), cinematography, yada yada. I think about the universe a lot (in the way that that's possible, don't get all Socrates on me) and would enjoy someone who loves long boring quiet philosophical conversation while we pet my cats. No one cooks my shrimp for me - literally. Except Martha Stewart, I'd let her.
Music: To name a few favorite bands - Philip Wesley ("Racing against the sunset"), Mitis("Touch"), Jesu("Playgrounds are empty"), Smashing Pumpkins("Stand Inside Your Love" and "Mayonaise") Ryan Stewart("Memories"), Cillo("Raindrops"), there are about a thousand more. Genre would be mostly ambient metal, baroque classical, adagios, SOME dub step, experimental slow metal, folk, bluegrass(yeeeehawwww!), blues, pretty much anything that's weird and/or basey and/or complex.
I have a close bond with my family - My parents(divorced), my two sisters and some extended family. Being close to your family is not a requirement for me, only that you're a good-hearted person - that will work. Family can be crazy I understand the basics.