It seems odd that we spend most of our lives trying to be successful, going to college and getting our degrees, buying a house, filling it with beautiful things, having our children, raising them, and during the process, we still feel somewhat empty inside. It is not that we aren’t proud of what we have, our beautiful children, our spirituality, health, security, but it is more than that. We yearn for a connection with a person we can love and cherish; someone who understands us and accepts us for the way we are. I just want to find my soul mate. I keep thinking he is out there and I will find him one day. I am kind of shy, and I like to take things slowly. I am intellectual,caring, sensitive,loving and supportive. I want to have stimulating conversations, share our dreams together. For so long I kept looking for the “perfect” one and now I realize that I don’t always know what is perfect for me. I think we typically go for what we think looks good, but not always go by what is good for us.
Things I enjoy: reading historical novels, keeping up to date on local and world news, watching foreign films, swimming, the beach, photography, cooking, quiet relaxing time at home, family activities, volunteering, learning about different cultures, traveling, comedy clubs, boating, putt putt golf, dog park, power walking at the park, maybe joining a sports team (Softball), learning new things about science and technology. I would love to visit Japan. I have been to Mexico, Italy, France, Spain, Greece, Bulgaria, and Montreal Canada. Cruises are fun. I would enjoy learning how to scuba dive. I also like mixed martial arts.
I am really easygoing, very little bothers me, and I live a quiet drama free life.