I think a first date should be about getting to know one another, so things I would not like to do are movies, clubs, or anyplace that is to loud or large that you can't hear or get away. Dates all depend on the time of day, season etc. Putt-Putt is good, but not in the rain. Bricktown is a good first date atmosphere since there is plenty to do and see, yet you can still get away to a more intimate setting to visit and have a drink. A nice drive with a picnic would be good after you know one another a little better (unless you find that too corny).