I'm just a clever boy running in search of my impossible girl... or maybe girls... It is funny how life turns out, I never thought I'd be in a relationship like this, but as it turns out, I'm relationship with a woman that is also my best friend, but she prefers women...
We will always be best friends and someday we may not be lovers. We know we have to follow our heart's desire and understand what is good for us now is wonderful and it is ok that it might not be permanent, and that is perfectly ok with the both of us.
Let me be clear, if I, or we, find someone who actually happens to be very into both of us, then that would be incredibly lucky and possibly ideal. But we are not necessarily counting on such a likely rare event.
And so if I find and fall in love with a woman that I would want to build a family with, she doesn't have to be bisexual or interested in my current girlfriend in that way, but she will have to be able to trust me to be monogamous with her, and to trust that me and my friend will only maintain our close friendship, as this is absolutely possible. My current girlfriend would be totally ok with this, and she is just as actively looking for her potential "life-mate" even if that woman isn't into me. As I said above, we are both open and honest with each other and are ok with whatever the future brings and we know our friendship will endure.
I love fun and adventure! As long as I can remember I've been told I was a modern renaissance man. People say I'm kinda like some sort of Indiana Jones. In elementary school my teachers called me "Indiana Jones" because of my interests in archaeology, anthropology, science, history, and adventure. In junior high I was honored at "the young authors conference" at the U of A for a short fictional story. My freshman year in high school I was honored at Pima Community College for a abstract painting.
I've been told I'm really smart, and people often tell me "How do you know that?" I even have one friend who always calls me "the genius" and he uses me like Google, ha ha, always calling me at odd hours just to pick my brain about something. Some say I remind them a little of Sheldon or Leonard from the Big Bang Theory. I'm not exactly a genius, I have my strengths and weaknesses just like anybody else. I do have a high IQ but it's not like I'm Einstein or anything, well maybe just a little.
I've always had a thirst for learning and experience. I dig science and history and am an artist as well. Maybe I'll paint a nude portrait of you. But don't get me wrong I've never been & could never be "all work & no play", quite the opposite. Play is very important to me. Maybe that's why I'm not finished with college or maybe it could be the fact I can't settle on only one major and enjoy working too much? Eh, who am I kidding, I probably goof off too much or are on some pointless adventure depending on your perspective, lol, and yet I always have enough money for fun and for the future... I love great food and like to try new things. I'm very grounded and get along with just about any personality type or in about any social setting, however I did once have an awkward moment just to see what it feels like, lol.
I still love adventure and I'm passionate about all life has to offer. I love camping and nature walks. My favorite sports are paintball/lazertag, martial arts, target shooting, archery, sport-car racing, skateboarding and basketball. I'm always looking for new and exciting things to do. I love to read and watch movies, I am a cinephile and a hedonist, lol, but who doesn't love the pleasures of this world.
Date!? Who said anything about a date, I don't even know you yet! Geesh... lol
But seriously, after chatting for a bit here, I'd think we'd want to meet in a public place and have coffee or tea, or what ever floats your boat, maybe a walk in a park, and chat more in person and see what's what. ;-)
Frederick S. Perls said it best: "I do my thing, and you do your thing. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations and you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, It's beautiful. If not it can't be helped."
Ultimately I am looking for the love of my life.
I'm looking for good friends to share experiences with.
I have to admit I'm a sucker for a pretty face, but it takes a whole lot more than that to get and hold my attention. ;-)
If I haven't messaged you, you should message me. I promise if you write me, I'll at least say hi back, eventually, ha ha.