My ideal first date will actually depend on the time of year, where i am and who i am going out with.
Every person is different,and i want to be able to do something that the other person is comfortable doing too. Something fun and interesting and safe, like if the date is going to be an all day or most the day, maybe horse back ride on trails or the beach, swimming, if its nice enough, or even something inside, like bowling or pool or something else. I am not really into movies on the first date, cause i use the first date to get to know the person, and sitting at a movie makes it hard to talk to her and get to know her. Can't choose the right movie, if i don't know what type she likes, if you know what i mean, lol. Plus a chance to go make a fool of myself and sing a few kerokie songs and dance a lil slow dancing is good way to close out the night too. If we don't do a lot of laughing at each other and ourselves, then the date, not me or my lady, needs to be loosened up some.