Hi, I'm Danielle, I'm a pretty easygoing, romantic, outgoing, and love to have fun, more child-like kind of person. I love the beach more than anything and being in the waves/snorkeling, and am big into tropical islands and sea creatures, a "bahama mama" or 'Finding Dory' type!! Lol! :D!!! I love water period. I also am addicted to/love amusement parks like Knotts Berry Farm and horseback riding, traveling, shopping, the movies, listening to music, and lately have gotten into casino video poker and enjoy occasionally hitting up casinos like Morongo to play the Jacks or Better/Super Aces machines from time to time to see if I'll get lucky. :-) I also am interested in foreign languages and eventually traveling around the world in the future, but right now LOVE going to/exploring the California coast, especially places like Laguna, La Jolla Sea Cove/Sea Caves, Santa Monica, Huntington Beach, and Big Sur/Monterey/etc. I live in Southern California. I guess you could call me an aspiring actress/filmmaker with a day job, although career-wise, I'm also considering becoming a teacher & still pursuing the filmmaking/acting thing on weekends & spare time/school breaks. I love doing impressions, my favorites being Cartman from Southpark, the Disney princesses, evil witches, Kardashians, Britney Spears, British Nanny 911 (the one whose hired to fix peoples outta control kids lol), etc etc! XD)) :D >:O
I'm looking for a guy whose very expressive, has a unique personality, romantic, smart, unusual, who stimulates me/has chemistry with me, and also shares my religion/belief in Christ/God (doesn't matter what denomination or whether Christian/Catholic). Someone honest, rare, and genuine.I know there's a lot of guys also struggling to find someone special who won't cheat or disappoint them or reveal themselves to be flakey/douchey, so if you're a guy whose goin through what I've been goin through- Man! I feel for you! and I hope you get a break some day soon. :) I like guys who are artistic, funny/comedic types, unique, bold and also aren't afraid of making the 1st move.
For some reason half of the dating world is very obsessed with proclaiming "no drama" or giving themselves the label "drama free", I'm not sure if it's because u've all been meeting psychos or are worried others might think you're the bar fightin type, but it can be redundant. Individual/unique personality is sexy!! The way I view it is life is drama, there is no person who will live long without experiencing hardship, conflict, excitement, or even horror (we have Trump threatening to bomb North Korea for freak's sake), or havin a toilet bowl overflow on them!! Lol So to claim to be "free from drama" when you strip it down it's somethin really only a dead person or someone not born yet can claim, we all are humans and emotional and prone to feeling angry, sad, happy, impatient, festive, depressive, sassy, blissful, etc etc etc. Might be more accurate to label ourselves as "not a vase thrower". Lol Individuality and the confidence to be truthful about yourself is a good thing. I like someone to be totally open with me about who they are and what they want, and with whom I can totally be who I am and reveal what I want, someone whom I can be nakedly honest with and vice versa. I am looking for a long term relationship, as in boyfriend/girlfriend, and would one day like to get married, but only if it's right/met the One for Life. :)
Politically I'm pretty liberal/Democrat, except for being personally against abortion, and am looking for someone with similar political values. While it's not impossible for a Democrat and Republican to come together, I don't really see myself with someone who condones the GOP's stances of taking away minimum wage, the party's War against the Poor, their screw you attitude to everyone who isn't fortunate in society, and their fake proclaimed love for Christ while having nothing to do with Jesus'es actual values and commandments. I'm a big Bernie Sander's fan! I'm very into help the homeless, Democratic Socialism, and following the life Jesus outlined for us even though it's hard. I have begun going to church again after years of avoiding the place despite being Christian due to high levels of con artists, but have happily found a good place. I'm a very contradictory person in a lot of ways, I am very scared of real paranormal activity but love horror films, I think about the future even after death and I definitely have some issues/struggles with God even though I'm Christian. I'd like to find another plane off center hopefully to exist on as much as possible, which is why I love art, and all things escapism, except for dolphin retreats. I'm very anti-captivity with animals. I also love Disney films and am a bit of a diva, I love swimming in pools, "kissing for hours, talkin, makin plans" (a favorite Darren Hayes lyric), baking desserts, watching movies and my favorite shows like Real Time with Bill Maher.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Anything fun and spontaneous, maybe in a more intimate romantic setting. I'm a big fan of Cary Grant films, and I love the Old Hollywood style of dating, and romance films. Their my ideal life I escape in when I don't have an ideal life. I like guys who are expressive, intelligent, bold and also aren't afraid of making the first move. I need that. I am shy sometimes. I am a very cliche girly girl in some ways, and I enjoy being female. I tend to be more attracted to more masculine guys who are nice and respect my boundaries, but also honest and straightforward about their intentions, no matter what they are.
When I'm getting to know someone with whom I could have a potential relationship. I like to have these really intense, curious, honest no-holds barred discussions. I don't hold back from talking about something because it's "negative", or if they tell me a flaw of theirs, asking them more about it, the extent of it, what they think makes them act like that. And the reactions of a lot of guys in my past have been to kind of turn chicken or get really turned off or act like my asking those questions is a negative indicator about our relationship potential, when I do it. One of the reasons behind why I do it is because no relationship is complete sky and roses, and I like getting to the center of truth with someone, being with someone whose completely honest about themselves in anyway, and doesn't see my curiousity about themselves, including their flaws, as this negative thing or a sign of relationship doom. I just don't see the harm in finding out who they really are, before u head blindly into the clouds with them, and they can ask anything they want of me. But it seems to turn a lot of guys I come into contact with off. So I'm looking for that bold, secure, nakedly honest guy who gets off on intense, honest discussions and finds discussing personal things, getting to the center of the truth about who a person is, and finding out everything about someone, good and bad, invigorating, interesting, intriguing, stimulating, essential to figuring out the relationship potential, who isn't scared off by it, or defensive, or in denial of his flaws, and who also understands I am willing to be completely open about my flaws and nakedly honest about all the parts of who I am, too. Someone who wants to, and isn't afraid of, having a deep relationship, who sees it as a turn on.