I hate profiles that sound like a sales pitch. The day I have to pimp myself out is the day it's time to quit dating. What an obnoxious concept! "Hi, I'm passionate, energetic, and a good person." To quote Chris Rock, "Your supposed to be, you low expectation [person]!" Lol By the way there's a very good chance that someone who has to state their a good person probably isn't. Yeah. Saw right through that, mmhmm.
Anyways, you either accept me for who I am (extremely girly-did I mention my entire bedroom and living space is Disney/Hello Kitty?, childish, sarcastic, spontaneous, as well as full of some secrets) or you don't.I really distain average conventional "normal" people lifestyles, and I"m the farthest thing from the conservative right, which means I will hold it against u if your anti-gay, racist, religiously fanatical, in other words Republican, an "Obama hater", a preachy Christian who treats dates like warm up gospel sessions, or a member of the group we have gotten to know in the media of fanatical, faux Christian evangelicals who in reality break every law in the Bible with the hate they have for almost every other member of the human race except for themselves and other white "conservative" straight people, as in I definitely won't be open to dating you. I have a lot of intolerance for intolerance. lol My priorities definitely consist of getting away from boring, average life and people who expect me to act like themselves. It's a big turn off. I intend to go into the grave as an individual, unless of course i'm sprinkled in water, which would be more mermaidish and otherworldy. Sometimes I do think about my funeral. lol I'm a very contradictory person in a lot of ways, I am very scared of real paranormal activity but love horror films, I think about the future even after death and I definitely have some issues with heaven even though I'm christian. Not looking forward to my life as an angel, but not treasuring my earthly experiences either. I'd like to find another plane off center hopefully to exist on as much as possible, which is why I love art, and all things escapism, except for dolphin retreats. I'm very anti-captivity with animals. I also love Disney films and am a bit of a diva, I love swimming, "kissing for hours, talkin, makin plans" (a favorite Darren Hayes lyric), baking desserts, watching movies and my three favorite shows Colbert Report/Daily Show/Southpark. I would love to adopt Cartman, but I don't plan at this moment to have real kids. I love pop music, listening to movie soundtracks, youtube, Hello Kitty collector, art, dressing up, and all things fun. I can be funny, I'm pretty easygoing being an Aquarius but I also have a Moon in Aries so i enjoy arguments. They bring heat to a relationship, the good kind, as long as you're with the kind of person who finds arguments hot too. lol Unless of course their really heated. Than you can see who will get the last one in. Being more mature than I was before, I'm not as concerned about that. No wait, I am, as long as I know I'm right!
I need to be with someone who I can be myself with without being judged, but who isn't afraid to argue with me. Usually you can be yourself with anyone if you have enough confidence, but without being judged by someone else is almost entirely impossible. Let's face it, most dates are like job interviews which is why dating in America has grown into a lame pastime that equates to nothing more than awkward moments until the 5th time, if even that. I'm very influenced by French culture, I'm romantic and detest job interview style dates consisting of staring at eachother asking what your favorite day of the week is. Nothing could be boringer and more cliche to me than that, so let's go somewhere fun and/or different where we can be individual without being suffering from our country's status quoes. How about a carnival? Maybe a cute frozen yogurt or ice cream parlour, like the Tiki Hut with a tropical theme! lol I love anything that reminds me of Fiji/tropical island culture, the beachside is the best, playing in the waves, walking on the sand, watching for dolphins. But I'm totally open. Getting me to decide on one thing is like asking Baskin Robbins to make only 56 flavors of ice cream. It ain't gonna happen, so it's best if I let you decide for me sometimes..or a lot of times. I have a problem with favorites. There's too many of them, and it corrupts me. lol
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Anything fun and spontaneous, maybe in a more intimate romantic setting. I'm a big fan of Cary Grant films, and I love the Old Hollywood style of dating, and romance films. Their my ideal life I escape in when I don't have an ideal life. I like guys who are expressive, intelligent, bold and also aren't afraid of making the first move. I need that. I am shy sometimes. I am a very cliche girly girl in some ways, and I relish being female. I love femininity and I tend to more attracted to more masculine guys who are still gentlemen, but also honest and straightforward about their intentions, no matter what they are.