Note: The above personality label of "Hopeless Romantic" is just one dimension of me. I'm really a combination of multiple personalities listed on and off the Plenty of Fish list, including Starlet, Diva, Escapist, Damsel In Distress, Fairy, Mermaid, Ballerina, Gymnast, Acrobat, Starving Artist, Pancakes with Boysenberry Syrup Eater, the list goes on...lol! "; )
I consider myself somewhat of an aspiring Renaissance woman, lol I want to do a lot of things! I have 7 different career goals: 1. To develop my own youtube "under the sea" swimming mermaid channel, and to learn more advanced underwater swimming techniques (I really was serious about the whole mermaid thing (above)). 2. I'm currently working on developing a signature line of cakes, sweets and desserts. I would love to open my own bakery and ice cream parlor, maybe with a candy shop someday. I'm definitely an "I Dream of Sweets" person! lol! 3. To develop a cetacean and sea animals of all species aquarium captivity rescue program, geared especially towards taking down Sea World. I'm a huge opponent of sea animal captivity, the glorified word for an underwater-entertainment-concentration camp.4. I'm currently working on my first romance novel. It doesn't have a name yet. 5. To sew and design my own clothing line. I'm working on my first pieces. I call it the "sexy rainbow sherbert collection." 6. I'm also an aspiring filmmaker/screenwriter/producer/actress/voice over artist and I love doing imitations and mimicking people and an array of cartoon characters. Southpark's Cartman is my absolute favorite. He's also a dream child for me as far as adoption goes. ;) And lastly, 7, I would love to master trapeze and acrobatics tricks/stunts along with ballet and gymnastics so I can found my own ballet acrobatic troupe someday, or "Cirque du Ballet." I also have a lot of side goals and hobbies/aspirations too, like becoming fluent in spanish and french, traveling the world, becoming a certificated scuba diver, and getting back into martial arts again. I'd also love to learn to play the piano, so I can play the tunes I love to listen to so much, like Disney music and favorite movie soundtracks/scores. I love listening to anything Mariah Carey, Adam Lambert, Enrique Iglesias,Shakira, Darren Hayes, bubblegum pop-Britney/MJ (Michael Jackson)/Christina Aguilera/Katy Perry/Ariana Grande/ATC and classic pop songs like "Barbie Girl." The list goes on and on! :D
Lol I hate profiles that sound like a sales pitch. The day I have to pimp myself out is the day it's time to quit dating. What an obnoxious concept! "Hi, I'm passionate, energetic, and a good person." To quote Chris Rock, "Your SUP-POSED to be, you low expectation [person]!!!" XD Lol By the way there's a very good chance that someone who has to state their a good person probably isn't. Yeah. Saw right through that, mmhmm. Anyways, you either accept me for who I am (extremely girly-did I mention my entire bedroom and living space is Disney/Hello Kitty/diva?, childish, sarcastic, spontaneous, as well as full of some secrets) or you don't.I really distain average conventional "normal" people lifestyles, and I"m the farthest thing from the conservative right, which means I will hold it against u if your anti-gay, racist, religiously fanatical, in other words Republican, an "Obama hater", a preachy Christian who treats dates like warm up gospel sessions, or a member of the group we have gotten to know in the media of fanatical, faux Christian evangelicals who in reality break every law in the Bible with the hate they have for almost every other member of the human race except for themselves and other white "conservative" straight people, as in I definitely won't be open to dating you. I have a lot of intolerance for intolerance. lol My priorities definitely consist of getting away from boring, average life and people who expect me to act like themselves. It's a big turn off. I intend to go into the grave as an individual, unless of course i'm sprinkled in water, which would be more mermaidish and otherworldy. Sometimes I do think about my funeral. lol I'm a very contradictory person in a lot of ways, I am very scared of real paranormal activity but love horror films, I think about the future even after death and I definitely have some issues with heaven even though I'm christian. Not looking forward to my life as an angel, but not treasuring my earthly experiences either. I'd like to find another plane off center hopefully to exist on as much as possible, which is why I love art, and all things escapism, except for dolphin retreats. I'm very anti-captivity with animals. I also love Disney films and am a bit of a diva, I love swimming in pools, "kissing for hours, talkin, makin plans" (a favorite Darren Hayes lyric), baking desserts, watching movies and my favorite shows like Real Time with Bill Maher.
I take pride in not being a douche. Unlike a lot of other people on here, I don't close out anyone who has kids from my dating pool, I will date anyone of any ethnicity, I don't flake out on planned dates, you can actually count on honesty with me, I'm not looking for someone to just screw while under the guise of "looking for a relationship/long term" on my profile, and if I date u I will actually give a crap about u as a person instead of looking for someone to basically use for awhile, than dump on a whim after pretending I really liked you. Pray the same good karma comes to me, ok? I seem to get the jackpot of well, crap, on here and in other outlets of my dating life. I think it's because the dating world is just predominantly full of lousy people. However, I'm not sexist and think it's mostly guys. I've heard of a lot of rotten chicks from my guy friends, like one who had a girl act like he was her ideal boyfriend and dated him for over a year, filled with lots of cute by the sea beach couple pictures and "I can't wait to see u" messages, only to cheat on him later. Frauds are everywhere, and trust has to be earned. I've met very few good people in my dating life, so please, if your a douche, or a flake, find some other chick, who will take your crap! You'll only get found out/dumped in a heartbeat, and told off, I don't suffer douches gladly. XD And save the romantic, your gorgeous crap if your really just looking for someone to temporarily use. I'm a lot smarter now, and I'll definitely see through you. And if I don't, there's always Plan B: Dump/tell off/talk with my girlfriends on facebook about the new douche I just dealt with, and some retail therapy from Hello Kitty or the Disney store if I"m delusional enough to even get bummed out over you. :)
On the other hand, if your a good person, and we're both attracted/compatible with eachother, u can look forward to lots of romance, fun, and being with someone who isn't going to delude or use u, either, and is really into the pleasure that the company of 2 can bring
Anything fun and spontaneous, maybe in a more intimate romantic setting. I'm a big fan of Cary Grant films, and I love the Old Hollywood style of dating, and romance films. Their my ideal life I escape in when I don't have an ideal life. I like guys who are expressive, intelligent, bold and also aren't afraid of making the first move. I need that. I am shy sometimes. I am a very cliche girly girl in some ways, and I relish being female. I love femininity and I tend to be more attracted to more masculine guys who are nice and respect my boundaries, but also honest and straightforward about their intentions, no matter what they are. I like someone to be totally open with me about who they are and what they want, and with whom I can totally be who I am and reveal what I want.
I'm looking for a guy whose very expressive, romantic, smart, unusual, who shares a chemistry with me, and most importantly isn't a douche, flakey, or full of bs. I know there's a lot of girls also in that category, so if you're a guy whose goin through what I've been goin through- God! I feel for you! and I hope you get a break some day soon. :)
When I'm getting to know someone with whom I could have a potential relationship. I like to have these really intense, curious, honest no-holds barred discussions. I don't hold back from talking about something because it's "negative", or if they tell me a flaw of theirs, asking them more about it, the extent of it, what they think makes them act like that. And the reactions of a lot of guys in my past have been to kind of turn chicken or get really turned off or act like my asking those questions is a negative indicator about our relationship potential, when I do it. One of the reasons behind why I do it is because no relationship is complete sky and roses, and I like getting to the center of truth with someone, being with someone whose completely honest about themselves in anyway, and doesn't see my curiousity about themselves, including their flaws, as this negative thing or a sign of relationship doom. I just don't see the harm in finding out who they really are, before u head blindly into the clouds with them, and they can ask anything they want of me. But it seems to turn a lot of guys I come into contact with off. So I'm looking for that bold, secure, nakedly honest guy who gets off on intense, honest discussions and finds discussing personal things, getting to the center of the truth about who a person is, and finding out everything about someone, good and bad, invigorating, interesting, intriguing, stimulating, essential to figuring out the relationship potential, who isn't scared off by it, or defensive, or in denial of his flaws, and who also understands I am willing to be completely open about my flaws and nakedly honest about all the parts of who I am, too. Someone who wants to, and isn't afraid of, having a deep relationship, who sees it as a turn on.