In selecting the primary site for a first date, I would hope to choose a nice restaurant that offers an ambiance that is conducive to soft, private conversation, that is not drowned-out or impeded by loud music or noise. I would want the experience to be as romantic and memorable as can be. During the dinner, I would do everything in my power to share my own deeply-personal thoughts concerning my vision for a future, genuinely-committed relationship with the woman of my dreams ; and, I would do everything in my power to elicit equally-open and honest thoughts from my date. What happens after dinner will be spontaneously decided - based upon the ideas exchanged between us. Perhaps, a walk holding hands ; or, a movie ; or, a visit to some exhibition or cultural site ; or, playing games in a video arcade ; or, whatever else might be of interest to you.