spanishflyfis
Age: 42
Hang out
open_adventure: Charming writer/cyclist seeks...
About
Non-smoker with Athletic body type
City
Albuquerque, New Mexico
Details
40 year old Man, 5' 7" (170cm), Other Religion
Ethnicity
Caucasian Capricorn with Brown hair
Intent
open_adventure Wants a relationship
Education
Bachelors degree
Personality
Profession
writer







I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Other
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Under 1 year



About Me
I'm both profound and profoundly silly. I'm hoping to meet someone who, like me, has a penchant for creating ridiculously fun spontaneous adventures. I live on a horse ranch where I'm working full-time on a book project.

I'm charming, worldly, diversely educated, and with the right lady, boldly flirtatious. I have an affinity for organic sustainable locally grown delicious food. I love to cook or prepare raw, especially for an appreciative audience. I like to soak for too long in a hot tub, check out bluegrass festivals, and take breathtaking photographs of nature. I'm well-traveled, with a resumé that includes India, Kashmir, Peru, Australia, Greece, Cyprus, the Middle East, and a bike tour across Ireland's West Coast.

I love to listen. I'm attentive, passionate, kind, and intuitive. Several friends and past partners have been spreading this crazy rumor that I'm "a great catch." What lurid gossip! References available.

(Hi, I'm an ex editing his profile to offer a reference! Ladies, he’s intuitive, passionate, sweet, a great communicator, a deviser of wickedly good times, and very generous in the ways that count…he may spoil you rotten. Seriously. Get to know this man. - From rhapsodyngreen, another dating site member.)

I'm into counter culture, alternative arts, and hang out with a variety of creative communities. I dig all kinds of live music, especially jazz.

I love to sweat and move my body with cycling, Yoga, hiking, swimming. I work out regularly at the YMCA.

I'm a fan of various festivals like Strawberry Music and Symbiosis. Hoping to go to Water Woman next year. Been to Burning Man several times, most recently camped with Red Lightning exploring the theme of gender alchemy. I wrote a cover story about Black Rock City for the Sierra Club magazine.

I am passionate, caring, and adventurous

what I'm doing with my life:
I call myself a wordsmith; I like to play with, arrange, and compose words into stories about social justice, the environment, and personal transformation. On the side, I offer private mediation and communication coaching using NVC (www.cnvc.org). I'm an activist and am involved in a variety of campaigns to make the world a better place.

I'm a member of The Men's Circle. We support each other in living our life purposes. It's an excellent source of friendship and brotherhood. We challenge each other to grow, evolve, and live in integrity.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Comedy: Flamboyant British snark. Esp. Eddie Izzard - http://www.eddieizzard.com/things/clip/

Books: Anything about Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr., and other spiritual/nonviolent leaders, gurus, and activists... The Red Tent; The Life of Pi; Eat Pray Love; The Other Side of Eden; The Power of Now; Running with Scissors; Nature and Madness; The Hope for the Flowers; Beyond the Promised Land; The Lord of the Rings; The Warm Fuzzy Tale; All the Shah's Men; and David Deida's musings about masculine and feminine.

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind; Sliding Doors; Office Space; Adaptation; The Big Lebowski; What Dreams May Come; Being John Malkovich; Bliss; 24 Hour Party People; Sneakers; The Hours; foreign, art, independent, documentaries, comedies...

Music: 80s new wave, jazz, bluegrass, classical, modern rock, irish traditional, electronic, groove salad radio

Food: Avocados; ultra-dark chocolate; quinoa...
Cuisines: Indian, Sushi, Mexican, Ghanaian, macrobiotic,
A healthy organic diet, some raw, some cooked.


First Date
For a first date, I prefer a cup of tea and a chat.

If there's a second date: live music, theatre, an art gallery opening, a great dinner, conversation, and heavy flirting...