Strange. Dorky. Eccentric. Tattooed. Pierced. Bespectacled. Plaid loving. Homosexually inclined. Musically random. Spiritually searching. Intellectually stubborn. Painfully idealistic.
Reading random pieces of literature and crap, searching for meaning in life, debating the existence of a higher power, laughing at dirty jokes (also includes racist and sexist jokes) but only to pacify the joke teller, and hating people to say "Hey, how's it going?"
Something quiet and safe, like coffee or a picnic, and then if things go well for that, something a little more fun. Maybe a reversal...have fun and then get to know the other person better. I really like low-key and quiet dates, I like talking and doing something at the same time so coffee would be nice, because you could always stir your drink if things get awkward or silent.