Gonna be short and sweet on this one - in see a lot who are on here ALL OF THE TIME, and yet you can't be bothered to return a message on here - and yet you are still on here, looking.. Sorry if some of us don't cause a 'spark' etc when you see us or meet, but guess what? Life isn't always like in the movies or those novels. As well, stop looking for someone to take on a role in your life; soulmates, 'the one', future husband etc. You put too much on a person and they don't appear to be dating material, you only set yourself up to be 'picky', which is a nice way of saying 'always on here looking. Not all of us are pigs looking for booty calls, etc. Some of us want the same thing - to be happy. You get past 'roles' and preconceptions etc, maybe you can meet someone and be happy. Trust me, not all of life has to be chasing something that may not exist! Want to know about me? Ask. I have a pic and I also have feelings.
mostly casual. chat, good food and a good conversation. maybe take my dogs for a walk and have a nice chat with coffee (or hot chocolate/tea in hand if it is a cooler time of the year) and see what happens. i am not one to get my hopes up these days, but i am far from a pessimist. as well i am rather adventurous, and have done things like kite surfing, free rock climbing, intensive nature hikes, and other interesting experiences, so i am always open to new and unique things!