You have to be out of your mind, full of hope, optimistic, or a real person who can see the true nature of a man like my self, to be inrested In who I am and what I do for others. despite over 2 yrs of a relationship with a woman who treated me like an enemy, rather than a husband and a father I have survived with my head up and I am taking care of her children and mine. I say this, not to brag, but to point out that only a woman who wants a commited man with a family and who wants to apply the same should respond. I think 5 children scare most people away...OH WELL!...Sorry , but most of them walk away from the one that actually demonstrates exactly what they say they want...commitment, loyalty, sacrifice, love, and willingness to go above and beyond for each other. but I must be crazy to think that any woman would want a man that would sacrifice his own freedom to take on the responsibility of 5 children (4 are hers). After all such a man would also be willing to love a wife the same way. That means he will still be there for her even in the worst of times. I want a woman who will show her love with compassion and understanding for me as well as those children as I will do for my companion. I must be crazy to think that any woman would even think about joining in that life experience of love, challange and yes adventure with myself and 5 children (real love is not selfish, does not boast, it always comes through, It gives hope and does not destroy) I am a guy who loves to please my woman in every way I can. I love intimacy, and romance of course, but there is much more to life to be celebrated and enjoyed as well. communication, and open mindedness are important. I want to be loved when I am there and when I am gone I want to be missed. I need those quick hugs, spontaneous pats and whispered I love you's I am very genorous with my companion and do all I can to better our lives together. I dont think you will be dissapointed. So now the final question....Is there such a woman who will take such a man?