“Adults are just obsolete children and the hell with them.”
- Dr. Seuss
I would never date anyone I wouldn't be friends with first, friendship has been the difference between my soaring successes and the the crashing and burning of the Hindenburg. I would also not date a person I wouldn't want in my life for the rest of my life, or at least a significant part of it, as a friend or more.
I do not have a car because I would rather walk, or hitch hike, more adventures that way! and new connections.
I'm an adventurous, outgoing, hard working stupidly loyal guy. I love life, all life. I like to live simple but love good intellectual conversation, and really will accept all things as best I can. I feel like I am very young at heart, not to be confused with immature, more just full of energy and warmth for all the wonders around me, I also live very healthy, food, exercise, lifestyle and beliefs. I have lived an amazing life with dizzying heights and blackest pits, if I were to die tomorrow I would have no regrets and feel my life has been well lived, that being said I am certain there is more in this life for me so I wont go for that last wander through the forests just yet!
I keep a fiery Positive outlook on all things, as best I can anyway. Life hits hard at times...but I tend to get up and look it in the face, grinning and growling "Challenge Accepted!"
Passion is one of the most important elements of human life by my understanding and it is important that we stimulate said passion on many fronts for chemistry and depth to be reached. Communication, tolerance, awareness, loyalty and courage are up there in my books as well, I do my best to fill my each day with as much of this as I can.
I am by no means a "Normal" guy. I am a balance of many things, from artist to technician to fruit loop to hopeless romantic. Im not one to be put in or put others in a box. I dont believe age or distance, height or color are an issue as long as chemistry, intent and connection are there. If you think there are boundaries to connection, love, passion or growth then don't bother reading any further and look elsewhere....my passion is learning and evolving in any and every way.
I believe in asking for what you want, you could have have none of these things and we'd still get along, I think every mountain is climbable given the right perspective and motivation ; Aspects that I love in people - Nerds; smart classy, outgoing people with a twisted side; Someone who takes care of themselves meaning fit, slender, or not lazy; tattoos are awesome!; people who look Fey; those who are sexy inside and out; glasses; intelligence;long hair; creativity; good sense of humor; true compassion; adventurousness; being young at heart; most of all a willingness to get hit by lightning. Those who respond well to being dragged to the ground and kissed passionately during a storm certainly pull my attention strongly; also those in touch with their more animistic nature. The most attractive thing about a woman is whats between her ears ( meaning her brain, I am saddened that I actually had to explain that). People who have none of these things but are still able to be themselves tend to spark my interests as well. Ooooh ooooh oooooh Must have very kissable lips, I love kissing, and not mind being picked up off the ground when hugged. Playfulness is super important too!
Turn offs - too much make up - if I wanted to date someone who looked different in the morning then when we went to bed Id date a werewolf, at least that would be interesting; bad hygiene; ignorance; cowardice; lack of passion; Materialism; unwillingness to explore and grow; laziness; bad diet; lack of communication and most importantly being judgmental. none of these are deal breakers...except bad hygiene, that one is sacrosanct. oh yeah and please dont be a flake.
Guilty Pleasures - Anything to do with the eighties; music, movies, clothing. Running around naked as much as possible. Fire of all sorts. Explosives. Bison sausages! Snuggling up under an electric blanket outside and sleeping on the deck with snow falling. Electricity, lightning, storms. Working out. Animals of all kinds. Spaceballs, Community,Sons of Anarchy, Micheal Buble, Ensiferums songsguardians of fate and into battle, Choir music.
Anything else just email me, I cant Guarantee the most normal of experiences, I hate texting or emails but this site is geared around it, and if you stick it out who knows what may reveal itself. I am more into making friends at this point though a long-term relationship and ever growing depth is my long-term goal.
As it is I am in the Kootneys for now helping a friend out with his bar, another with his sports store and yet another with his Gym, after leaving a career of far to long and far too little heart in it. For those it matters too I am a slender man, I work out 4 times a week using the C.H.E.K. Program which I am also studying (Corrective High-performance Exercise and Kinesiology).
Art Terrorism is big for me, altering peoples perspectives, changing lives, helping people out of the mud and back to a better way of life. I am by no way religious, though I have many faiths, and have seen and experienced enough to know there is so much beyond us in the world that to think this is it is ignorant and tantamount to the little death.
So if you have read this far, mail me, I hate not talking in person but we have what we have, Cheers!
Things about you? Hmmmmm, Active with the ability to curl up and doze off watching a movie or reading together, Adventurous yet street smart, Creative and Practical, Open minded but have your own views and faiths, Fit but still hug-able, Confident but humble, Wise and Silly. Have the ability to not be dressed to the nines all the time, get messy and unkempt, crumpled. And at the very least have an unaltered non high contrast photo.