r_u_for_me: its summer - where is the romance :)
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Douro, Ontario
58 year old Male, 6' 0" (183cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Libra
r_u_for_me is actively seeking a relationship.
Some college
Hopeless Romantic

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Bald Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Cat  

About Ken
Moments in time..Sands of time , beaches, travels, family, friends, pets, events.......

As you look through the profiles and the scenes captured in the pictures people post, do you ever wonder what it would have been like to be there for that very moment - the emotions, the fun, the company, what it would have been like to participate??

Does it make you wish for similar moments of your own as a pair?

A new journey for the rest of our lives?

I know it does me ;o)

One of the most moving songs about life I ever heard was Strawberry Wine. Very haunting, extremely provoking...

One of the best movies ever - Cars - yes the kids cartoon movie - I've never been reminded in so many ways how friends, family and the ones you dont even know, will stand for you, and behind you..if you have character....quite simply an amazing movie

Unconditional love - do you remember the last time you gazed into a babies, or a doggies eyes - now thats living on a grand scale - to be loved just because you exist

Hi, my name is Ken.

How do I set myself apart from the crowd? Interesting and difficult question. I am, like most, seeking what we all seek, a partner in crime, a confidant, a friend, a lover, a supporter, and defender.

I have many interests, and I am always seeking new experiences, that will broaden my horizons or teach me, or improve me.

I like many have seen my share of ups and downs, and have learned what needed to be learned as I went. My baggage is properly stored, and now the only baggage I need or want comes in black or blue and has zippers.

My preference in relaxation is a walk, or sitting by a fire, cooking or a good movie. Reading is good too, but hard to share. There are many many others from fall fairs to live theatre.

I prefer to entertain at home rather than going out, but a night of dancing or a movie or other social events are nice too.

You are in a similar stage in your life where sharing with someone special is how you would like to be, rather than need to be.

I have been a single parent for many many years, but they are now grown and out the door on thier own journeys

The profile says no children wanted,but that is not really true - yours would be most welcome.

This next paragraph is stolen/plagerized, but it is exactly what it is all about for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have been recently asked....What am I looking for?...What do I want?.....
......and the simple answer is....I want to delete my profile....I want to turn off this freakin computer....(let me say that again)...I WANT TO TURN OFF THIS FREAKIN COMPUTER and I want to turn on a love affair! I want to find a special woman to spend time with...enjoy each other....laugh together and do nothing together. This is turning out to be harder then I thought! Sooooooooo......

I am game for almost anything once, and maybe even twice to be sure, so give me a whirl.

"Physical attraction may get you in the door but personality keeps you in the house" what more needs bein said??????

The personality, needs, and other personal assessments on this site are very accurate in most respects, so if you want to know me more, have a read ;o)

I saw this on a ladies profile and just had to steal it for here ;o) because it applies equally to men and women.

We are all so busy shopping in the supermarket of dating that we are spoiled for choice. We get caught up in the pretty labels, the flashy names, the over the top packaging that we don't read the ingredients.

STOP!!!!!!! Read the ingredients. That small can at the back of the shelf may have everything you need and no hidden preservatives that can harm you in the longrun. I am no blue light special . But I am a product that is steadfast , quality, all natural , maybe an acquired taste ,some may say a delicacy, but once you have had the courage to try can become very addictive. You may need to weed through the mass merchandising campaigns to get to me but I am worth the hunt............HEHE..

My own thoughts on stuff like glasses, soul mates etc as seen in other profiles ;o)

- Not everything you read is true - the names have been changed to protect the innocent, (me) or to make you laugh

Whats with this glass half full stuff- who cares how full the damn glass is - if the contents were any good, the glass would be empty and we'd be lookin for more of the same, lol, rotf, lmao ;o)

Soul mate - whats that - isnt that for after I die? Gimmie hot, intense, can't do without her, wanna lust for her every day, for the next thirty or so years, till I die - that will make this life worth livin large ;o) Our souls can play on the other side when its time.

Head games - is that like that old Mayan ball game where the winner lost his head and it was placed on centre field for all to praise his family for having raised such a great player? or are you just tired of bein a nine? ;o)

Liars - now this one I really love - even the Big Guy lied and so have you!!

Players - heaven forbid they really have it for you from your profile and pix and are just plain ol tryin too hard.......remember that love at first sight so many of us seek....or ..is it you just dont like cards, board games, slots, 649, casinos ;o)

Games - you got too old to have fun, or you hate to lose, or your just not adventurous and wont play, "hide the piece of scotch tape" or "poke r" or "eanie meanie" with me? Sometimes losing has the best rewards.... ;o) Wheres that nude twister board???

Where are all the good ones - well even with all our flaws, and yours too, we are all perfect and good for someone, just not everyone. It takes your good to balance their not so good and vice versa. My fave saying is "we are all angels with but just one wing and we can not truly fly untill we totally embrace someone"

Cats - I have two of the little furry critters - does that make me a Cat Lady tooo lolololo or do the hundred or so guppies counterbalance that affliction?

OMG this is funn !!! .... more to come....... ;o)

Favorites lists - I use them because often I am at work surfin on a break or lunch and dont have time to do other than make sure I can find you later so I can digest your profile properly with the intensity and thoroughness it deserves! Yes I read them all the way through - several times, to be sure I caught all of your nuanaces and meaning ;o)

Guess I have to be like you ladies and ask you to please have a pic to share either in your profile or your first mail - I have one so it is only fair

A kiss really does tell all to the depths of your soul

First Date
A first date - Someplace quiet, where we can both feel comfortable with each other where we can talk openly and laugh and learn about each other would be good. Suggestions in our first mails and mutual decisions are less pressure for both, and much more enjoyable.

People put too much emphasis on finding The One when you really need to get to know the one right in front of you. You may just discover a gem!

"When someone knows all about you and likes you anyway, that is Friendship"

"Find arms that will HOLD you at your WEAKEST,
eyes that will SEE at your UGLIEST
and a HEART that will Love you at your WORST
Then you found true LOVE"

PS - doesnt anyone ever talk on the phone anymore??????????????

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