Lets see, a first date really depends on how long you've been talking to the person for and or how well you know them so far, if it was like a first time meet up, barely talking before hand, maybe something to ease the edge, public places for sure!! maybe out for dinner at the cactus club or the keg, have few drinks to relax and get to know each other, maybe go bowling, like disco bowling thats always fun or in the summer hit up the amusement park, personally, i love clubbing simply cause i love dancing and good loud music, im not a clubster guy, i dont need to club all the time i love just hangin out, but still enjoy going out occasionally, so you could go witha group of friends then get close on the dance floor :) theres lots to do, or ive youve been talking longer online or known each other in person for awhile maybe something a little more intimate, one on one dinner at either or's place n get to know each other alone maybe after or before a movie date or dinner date, bottle of wine and a movie or 2? i donno i think those sound like good options. OR hey even make it risky, see if the woman is down for some misnight skinny dipping hell even day time! anytime of the year, its always good fun ;) and it all depends on the woman, thats how i go, i love to be forward n speak my mind, i dont like being held back, im me and i can only be me :) every woman is different so it all depends on how well you know them or not, just make it rememberable and special.