I would enjoy meeting a women with compassion, enjoys laughing, easy going (has the ability to relax), has goals in life and is "actively" going towards them. Has develop the ability to negotiate and compromise in a relationship.
I grew up with mostly women, so I enjoy talking. I do have my "guy" moments were I just want to be left alone. Getting back to the first date description, Some women enjoy talking while doing some kind of activity, while others enjoy sitting in a cafe or restaurant and talking. Through our emails or talking on the phone we can find a common ground.