Where are the women that want the guys that are 'trying' to do right? I have a job, a house, a vehicle, and am single with no strings attached. I pride myself in doing the 9 to 5 and stay out of trouble. It is much easier to get into trouble than to stay out of it. I read plenty profiles on here where you looking for God-fearing yet I am still here. I am not going to reach everyone, but I do not need to, just the one that knows where I am coming from. I Timothy 5:8 - "But if any provide not for his own, especially for those of his own household, he hath denied the faith and is worse than an infidel". Marriage is a financial venture and the husband has a responsibility to finance or support or provide for his family. The Christian father should set an example for his family as he earns a living, directs the household with concern for each member, and as he fulfills his role as head of the house. He should see to their spiritual development by the life he lives and the direction in which he leads his family.
This is the part no one wants to hear. But it is on my mind. I see the horizon, but I am not sure what it entails. Anyone know what I mean? Where you get a glimpse of your future, and you want to keep pushing to reach it? That is the point in my life. That is the most difficult time in your life. You try to accommodate a special someone, and at the same time work toward your destiny. You can't explain it, only to let a special someone know that 'hey stick with me, I see the future, and it is great, I just can't explain it!!' Has anyone been there, or is it just me? This is the most confusing time in your life!!! Because you are fighting between two things you want so bad!!! Do you give up the vision for the love of another person (not necessarily being content, but your life isn't fulfilled), or do you let the other person go and follow the vision? Vision and goal is different. Vision IS a glimpse of your future- God doesn't give you all the parts at once, just bits and pieces. A goal is an accomplishment. I want to lose 130 pounds is a goal. After I lose 130 pounds, I see the particular feeling and frame of mind is vision. Spiritual leader coming up in a day!!
I love taking weekend trips to wherever. I work 4 days a week. I collect recycling!!!! Recycle everyone!!!!!
Some of my hobbies are working around the house or in the yard ( DIY), or tinkering with cars. I am going to start appyling for many of the races such as 5k, that are around the town and state. After church, I like coming home and relaxing!!! Going to buy me a double chair so I can share with that special lady!!! Women are beautiful and have a story to tell. Let's talk!! I have my eyes open to anything. I am wanting to attend the museum, musicals, hockey, plays,etc. I have a bucket list and I ain't even dying!!
I attend church regularly and believe in God. I have to, he has done so much for me. My favorite passage is Romans 12:2--And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.-- I am nowhere near perfect, but I try my best to be an example. I am looking for someone that loves God and has a story to tell.
What would make me unique is the fact that I still possess southern mannerisms, I open doors, yes ma'am/no ma'am, sweet tea, and apple pie. You can talk and I will listen. I love conversation. But communication is also important. I would like to know that we could talk through our problems. I am trustworthy and respectable to all I come across. I do not curse at all. I am also into exercising this year.
I like all kind of music. I may lean more to r & b, sometimes rap, especially before it was hijacked by these knuckleheads of today. I like older country.
I am a nerd by trade!!!