I keep editing this thing I swear, and every time I hit enter the site is down for 'scheduled' maintenance. If you want to contact me just do it; don't be afraid to do so because I only bite on request. I don't quite trust the meet me feature and I think the flirt option is just silly so if you like me write me and I just might write you back. I'll write you if I like what I see.
I'm not someone who believes that everyone has one special man or woman for them but I am still a firm believer that there is true love. True love takes time and patience from two people willing to work out all problems together as a team; to me that's what relationships are, a team effort, everyone involved has to carry a portion of the burden, and everyone shares equally in the rewards. Not all burdens are heavy but all rewards are golden and
I'm still looking for that person to spend the best and worst times with.
A little about me, my name is Grant, and I'm 28, I work part time in radio and full time looking for more work. I'm rather mischievous sometimes and a habitual flirt when I get comfortable with someone, I like teasing people but only in a good spirited way.
I try not to be cruel to people or animals.
I'm pretty eccentric and possess a sometimes strange sense of humor and my imagination is very vivid and active at all times.
I'm obsessive compulsive but not usually to the point where it prevents me from functioning normally, I've even managed to keep some of my compulsions under control.
I am not shy, I pride myself in being able to be open with a stranger.
I'm what some would call a godless heathen.
I could keep going but I'll just let the curious discover more by asking me.
The most attractive thing to me in a woman is knowing that they are with me because they want to be. I like open and honest people, ones who don't keep secrets, especially damaging ones. I want a woman with kindness in her heart (a soft spot for dogs and cats earns extra points) and doesn't mind random acts of affection. Looks are secondary in my mind because I look first for a beautiful soul. I want to start out casual, make friendly conversation and maybe move from there but I have an organic approach to how my relationships evolve, I don't follow any rules, I could stay the night on a first date or spend months just holding hands I'm flexible like that.
I'll end by saying I'm looking for a good hearted woman to make my team of life complete. I'm also always open to making new friends so even if I'm not your type you can look me up for a conversation if you are so inclined.
I'm not a fan of coffee, you can't talk at movies, I'm kind of picky about restaurants, and bars are always full of drunk idiots.
You know what? Lets go 50/50 on a cheap van, drive it to Vegas and get hitched what could possibly go wrong?
Or we could go to the mall and pretend to be from another country or planet!
Maybe we can catch fireflies or poke roadkill with sticks?
My favorite option is just to go ahead and do whatever we feel like doing; the first date should be about getting to know each other and there isn't any better way to do that in my opinion than to start with an activity and then just go from there.