I am a BBW and proud of it, with a heart as big as the rest of me. I am not Barbie. I'm not looking for a Ken Doll. I'm not a Kardashian driving a fancy car decked out in jewelry and money. I'm not looking for a rich man with fancy cars, fancy boots, and money out the ying yang. I'm not looking for a muscle bound Adonis or the guy with the perfect hair. All that stuff is superficial. Frankly, I am looking for a genuine, caring down to earth guy. I would love to find someone who is a cowboy at the core. You can wear a suit and have any job, but sometimes be content to put on some blue jeans and weathered boot, a cowboy hat, a western shirt and take off to the Badlands. Be willing to camp out, ride horses, go to the musical, just soak in the history. I'd prefer someone who loves classic cars, and rodeos. Tolerates professional wrestling, but love sports and not mind debating sports with a woman. Don't care whether you are liberal or conservative or independent, you just must follow current affairs and like talking about them and having disscussions about them, being open-minded to different views. We don't have to agree just respect how each other believes. You do though need to care out your fellow man and have some understanding about mental health. If you don't know, if you want to get to know me you must be willing to learn about it. I would love to find a man who challenges me and who I can grow with and who would like to get to know and grow with me. They say Life Begins at 50, lets leap off and find a new great future together.
I think I would like to meet you at the cafe' at Barnes and Noble at the Mall. We could talk over drinks and something to eat. Since it is a first date, I would expect it to be dutch and to pay for my own. Hopefully we will have enough in common and enough lively discussion the time would fly. Later we could either go to a movie at the Carmike or we could go to Grizzly's or somethng from the Food Court. We would not go to a bar on the first or any date, I apologize but I do not drink. I don't mind if you are a social drinker. Its cool if you have a drink when we are out together, I just can not put myself into a position of temptation where alcohol is the major focus.