Ok well lets see what I can stir up here. Well I am a swinger (aka Poly) and I enjoy having many FWBs (friends with benefits). I guess I should explain myself, I dont think I am into a poly relationship by chance unless something really good comes up but we can see you just have to find out. I am always a friend first the benefit is more like a perk really. I enjoy all types of things from talking about philosophy, current events to sexual desires and fantasies. I am not always about sex, I enjoy talking to a woman and finding out more about them mentally. To me the mind is more sexually appealing then the body. I always say if you cant talk to me outside the bedroom what makes you think I am going to talk to you inside the bedroom. I am very discrete and private and hold many secrets. I can also be very open and honest about myself you just have to ask. I am currently in an open relationship and she has her playmates and I have mine. I am not looking to get tied down to any one woman physically nor emotionally. If you cant handle me being in an open relationship with other women then move on otherwise lets chat, maybe go out for coffee, and see where the wind blows us.