This psychological assessment will tell you what you really want versus what you say you want.

Read each of the following questions very carefully and pick the response that best describes you. Don’t spend too much time on each question -- it’s best to follow your first reaction and you should respond quickly and honestly. When in doubt, consider how those who know you best would rate or describe you.

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First are questions about what you want in a partner when it comes to his or her personal and professional ACCOMPLISHMENT.
Again, read each of the statements below and indicate to what extent it applies to you.


    I want a partner who… Irrelevant Matters little Matters a bit Must have
1. Shares my zest for life.
2. Is very passionate about his/her work.
3. Understands that economic security in a relationship is fundamental to emotional security.
4. Holds a job that reflects success in his/her field.
5. Has no credit card debt.
6. Has his/her money tied up in long-term planning for a more secure future.
7. Is climbing the corporate ladder.
8. Is the boss in his/her work place.
9. Is driven by making as much money as possible.
10. Is in a well-respected profession, like a doctor or lawyer.


Second, tell us what you want in a partner when it comes to attraction and PHYSICAL CHEMISTRY issues.

    I want a partner who… Irrelevant Matters little Matters a bit Must have
11. Is not afraid to let me see the real him/her.
12. Is interested in having sex frequently.
13. Is healthy and robust.
14. Is extremely articulate and savvy in the way s/he communicates and interacts with others.
15. Prefers that affection be expressed in physical ways.
16. Has no past relationship baggage.
17. Considers my preferences when deciding how to look when going out.
18. Makes me seem more attractive or desirable.
19. Exactly matches my vision of the ideal look or image.
20. Increases my social status.


We conclude with questions about what you want in a partner with respect to his or her physical and mental DRIVE.

    I want a partner who… Irrelevant Matters little Matters a bit Must have
21. Is willing to try new activities and experiences to learn and grow as a couple.
22. Is always striving to learn and grow as a person.
23. Does not gossip about others.
24. Is into self-improvement.
25. Lives by the principle of work hard and play hard.
26. Is curious and cosmopolitan.
27. Takes health and nutrition very seriously.
28. Is a risk-taker in his/her personal life.
29. Takes exercise and physical fitness very seriously.
30. Prefers inside activities over outdoor activities.