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Regardless of my profile, anyone want to go to Napa on Nov 5, Wednesday?
Just as friends hang out. :)
I feel like finding the right partner is almost like a job interview. :)
The more you know about the job you are applying for, the better. That goes the same as presenting as well as possible about yourself in your resume. Sorry for the long profile, but you will get a good sense of who I am and what this "position" is about. ;-)
Let me state my intention here. My intention here is to meet someone who is looking for a relationship, someone who is physically & emotionally available, ready to share his life, ready to build a new life together with a partner. Also someone with stable income will be helpful because we will be able to go out & have some fun.
With that said, activity friends are welcome to contact me as well. Thanks.
From the people that I have met recently, I have to add that meeting people who is free from emotional burden is important. Be able to let go of the past. Don't take life's happenings so seriously. After all, we are only here on Earth for a short period of time, we can't take anything with us when we leave. So why not drop the baggage now? Be fully present is the best gift to the person you are with. It's hard to be fully present while carrying a lot of baggage from the past.
A little about me:
I am a pretty fun, somewhat adventurous, easy-going person. I love to explore, enjoy the great outdoors, hiking, sight-seeing, love photography. I'm pretty busy with work and looking to start my own business soon, but I still like to spend some time to have fun. I used to take scenic rides on scooter/motorcycle. Besides being outdoors, I also like watching movies & shows, as well as some quiet time. I enjoy trying out different restaurants, and explore something new each week. I like a variety of activities, and like to keep things interesting. I like to attend workshops to learn new stuff. I used to go to motivational workshops and really like Tony Robbins' seminar. And I enjoy volunteering or do a fund-raiser walk sometimes.
I have gone thru an awakening process in the past few years, which I found who I am and what I'm doing here in this life. I'm happy to have gone thru the process, and it is still on going, of course.
I go on spiritual retreats from time to time, and I love traveling, especially to historical places. The recent place I've been to was the Yucatan, and took some really awesome pictures. I like road trips, and would love to explore the bay area, across the country, and around the world with friends and my partner!
I would also be interested in running businesses together with my partner. I think it will be fun. :) I like the excitement, challenges, creativity, and growth that comes with it.
Things that I admire in a man (my potential partner).
~Open-minded, Patient, Loving, Caring, Understanding, Fun, Has a Good Heart.
~Confident- yet Humble. Confidence is a major attraction.
~Positive! Can see the unlimited possibilities. Has a Can-Do Attitude. I love this quote "The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude about the problem." Haha. I just love it.
~Know what he's looking for in life and in a relationship
~Got his life together, and ready to share his life
~Financially secured, or willingness to work towards it in the next few years
~Passionate about what he does
~Someone who is becoming Conscious, meaning having self-awareness & willing to make self-improvements
~Someone who loves to travel & explore. And if he enjoys photography, that's a plus, because I would stop during a hike for no reason and keep taking pictures of a squirrel or a tree or something for a long time..... I might bore you if you don't enjoy it as much as I do. =P
~And then lastly, I think a guy with some muscles is....sexy.... :)
** If you are not perfect and don't have everything mentioned, well, I'm not perfect either. :) As long as we know what each other want and have the desire to work toward it. That's what matters.
It would be nice if my potential partner knows what his goals are. I think this is important because sharing life means supporting each other's goals. Especially, what's important to you in your life, and what you are looking for in a relationship. I'm very much influenced by Robert Kiyosaki's book Rich Dad Poor Dad. So my goals have a lot to do with this book. It's great if my partner understands what financial freedom means. We can talk more about it later.
Since sexual intimacy & compatibility are such big components in relationship, I will mention this as well. I'm definitely looking for a deep connection. I realize that a lot of relationship is started with sex but don't last too long. I would like to be able to be friends first, at least meeting for several times, and then see where it takes us. Sex will eventually happen if the connection is strong enough without pushing it, and it will bring two people closer together. I'm not looking for casual encounter. As for sexual compatibility, this shall be discussed in the early stage too.
What a great date consist of?
Being able to have fun together as friends, and take some time to get to know each other. Let it grow into a deeper meaningful relationship as we get to know each other. If he's willing to learn massage , we can massage each other. I love massages. :)
And later into the relationship, we can learn tantra as well.
What makes me smile?
Feeling the warmth of the sun.
Watching the sky changes colors during sunset.
Seeing all the beauty of nature.
Watching animals, as well as little kids, do silly things.
Taking a deep breath, and realizing that I'm alive. :)
What touches my heart?
Seeing elderly couples still holding hands while going for a walk.
Seeing people with the will & determination to do the so call "impossible".
I'm grateful having everything in my life, and feeling very alive! Loving life and looking to share it with the right person. :)
Lastly, tell me what you think about road trips & camping out?