I am here because I don't go out to clubs - unless someone important is going or its my birthday lol - (just kidding) I don't freq bars, cause yeah that's a jolly ole' place of drunks and I don't wait at the grocery store for the singles dads to say pick me...pick me.
I always thought that dating should be about finding a person to hang out with, laugh with, travel with, bond with....get the "with" part?? Def not having one night stands or random texts/convos but never meeting....Its not about being so serious to forget that life is about living.
Fun and informative stuff - Don't ask me about my bra size - I will def stop answering or speaking to you. If you can't tell my size by looking, well then go back to the school yard to learn about the sizes of spherical objects.
Don't beg for sex - have some dignity for yourself; besides why sleep with randos???
Do be yourself, being what you are not is a waste to yours and my time; not to mention I can't stand liars.
now that you think you know me....
I am a joker, I laugh...(at stupid things sometimes) , I have raised my children ( yes 90% of them are adults now...only one soon-2-B 15 year old who thinks she a lady already - NOT!). I am a Gov't EE in management and do photography on the side.....if you know what InstaGram is....look me up under HARLESPHOTOGRAPHY or snapchat harle_quinn. I am VERY creative....and can do...make....anything my eyes If i can see...and my hands are willing to make. I am a geek at heart (well I was a geek during HS years...lol - so yeah maybe the ugly duckling gone swan? or maybe just cute duck...LOL). I have raised my children on my own....and now helping them raise their little ones too....(yes they that old....and yes i am a YOUNG GRandMA). I love being me...and normally people around me....always say I am the positive out-going loving one.....but hey I guess its your turn to find out...
Just know that I am a mother; love my children and def love my life. I would love someone who would enhance my life. I warn you though, please look past first impressions, I am and have been a mother/father to my children for over 20 years. I can be dominant at times but that doesn't mean that I am not passive. I work hard to provide for my family and no I will not look down at you because you hold a certain job. I was raised to respect the janitor as much as the CEO.
Gesprächsstarter (z.B. Was möchten Sie beim ersten Date machen...)
If only people look at dates differently, just to meet up...spark up a conversation and laugh.
No expectations - no evaluations...just meeting a random stranger...and having a good time.
Maybe even playing some XBOX, casino, road trip?? Let's go........