To filter who can message you on POF:
Click Edit Profile and Mail Settings.
- Please note that mail settings only apply to users with whom you have not had a first contact already.
You can specify who can initially contact you based on the following options:
- Distance from your location
- Message Length
- What they are searching for on POF (ex. Friends, Long Term)
- Smoking Habits
- Whether they take drugs
- Marital Status
- Intimate Encounters
- Images on their profile
You can make the additional specifications to your account here, too: